Femdom porn PIED

Hi guys, I have been fappin on femdom porns since I was 13 years old. It al started with feet stuff then went pusyy licking, face sitting to a more extreme stuff like strapon, chastity etc. I never liked vanilla porn because of this no mattter how hot the girl. Vanilla sex with my ex gf's was just felt like generally 7/10. I had to fantasize to get hard while vanilla sex.
I tried to quit that stuff 2 years ago when I first experienced ED on some one night stands. Deleted all my stuff and restricted to vanilla porn or solo streams only but then after a time I gave up and got back to my normal fetishes because ED was not common back then and I could easily get hard even if its vanilla sex bacause you know when you hook up with strangers its always excited.
Now I am 6 months married and my wife was virgin when we married. She had a quite hard time doing penetrative sex. She went to a doctor and they said nothing is wrong about her vagina that its common for new married virgins. She got used to it as time went on, but it wasn't exactly perfect. She still act like she have a vaginismus as I first getting in but after I succeffuly get in she is not hurting anymore. She can get wet easly etc. only problem is shes so nerveous when I first getting in.
Last month I had two ED's nothing like before. Also I started to feel like I lose my interest in sex. I still get morning woods but so rare. After ED'S we tried again and I was actually got hard. I thought that ED's was just a stress related but yesterday I had one ED too. I almost got zero interest in vanilla sex or naked woman body if its not femdom and if I am not horny.
What do you guys suggest to me ? what should I do to get attracted by naked woman only ? No PMO or just MO without porn etc

TLDR I am a femdom porn addict and I want to quit and be attracted to naked girl without fetishes.