For a long time I had my fapping habit in control, like 2-3 times a week and that was pretty normal for me since it was not affecting my life in any way. But 2 days back my roommate left for his home and thats when my lust took over my mind. I fapped thrice yesterday and then twice today. I don't think it to be addiction as I didn't feel compulsion, it was just I gave in too easily. Feel guilty for wasting my time. Whenever I am left alone in my room for few days, thats when I pmo to escape loneliness. From today, I will make sure I make my day productive. In a few months, I will graduate and will shift to a new city where I will live in a hostel. So hopefully, I will never be alone and have a great time. Am so excited for my future !
for a lot of men, PMO, is way to deal with lack of sex. Scientists and general opinion say that its good to fap and shit like that yet so many men feel bad about fapping. Also, in some countries fapping is an isnulat for males.
I think it depends on why you fap/PMO that makes it more or less of a problem. If you are doing it a couple of times a week to blow off some stress, and aren’t missing out on anything you otherwise would do; I don’t see a lot of harm. The problem is when you are substituting it for other activities. If your roommate is gone and you are doing it to pass time, there are so many other ways to do this, and you recognize that. So good for you. Sometimes this keeps progressing to the point it’s hard to not do it when you have free time, or you make time to PMO.
you're still running away from the problem which is your lonliness. you're walking a tight rope and are going to eventually fall off. Conquer hating being alone and your troubles with disappear and so will the intense grip porn has on you
