feels like i'm about to cum all the time

Fair enough; I don't mind most tight pants.

 

Yeah, I can relate; I don't wear loose clothing all too often.

And the sensitivity... Oh gosh, it's so annoying!

 

i've been definitely on your boat for a long time and still i'm, even if not as hardly as before. Go on your streak!

 

And I like wearing them, they make me feel more confident.

 

In all seriousness though. I don’t think the girls really understand. If you’re a guy and an erection comes up for whatever reason, random thought, anything....you have to decide what to do. I’m usually walking around or standing at work and I’m outside, no bathrooms available most of the time. Do I just ignore it even though I know its totally obvious and hope no one notices? Kind of try to find a place to discreetly reach down my pants and move things to where they’re less obvious? And I’m hoping everyone doesn’t think I’m some kind of pervert.
Guys might understand but any woman who sees me is going to be grossed out. She might even complain about sexual harassment, and It’s not something I even asked for.
LOL

 

I wouldn't report a guy for having an erection in his pants, I'd only ever do something if I was being harassed or whatever. I mean it's a dick, and it's natural to have urges and it's not like you can tell it no, I do get what you're talking about regardless of my gender.

Also, why would they be grossed out? It's not like it's hanging outside your pants or anything.

I'm just talking about the urge and extreme sensitivity that comes with withdrawl.

 

That’s good to hear. I hope most women think like you.

 

I can't speak for most women, but a penis is a penis, you'd think they wouldn't be grossed out. I dunno, women are weird. lol

 

Yea on this forum girls are more likely to be familiar with penises, if the were looking at P. Not sure how many women i know IRL would have that familiarity with it, or if they think the guy had to have dirty thoughts about them to have an erection.

Edit: To be fair I have never had someone complain or comment, it’s just something I worry about sometimes. My wife says it depends on the guy how women are going to react. If the guy is revolting to start with it will be added grossness, if not it might be intriguing.
Either way the OP is right, early after stopping M the feelings are intense.

 

They seem to get personally attacked if they see a guy with an erection, or if he's just big enough to see through. As I say I don't have a problem and I think it's unfair that men should have to hide, and I'm not saying it's an excuse to be lewd or anything either.

 

If a guy gets an erection around a girl, wouldn't that be considered a compliment?

 

It would be for me!

 

I'm with you there, so long as they don't act creepy after!

 

Depends.
See that’s the problem. If she thinks its for/because of her, she is (maybe) complimented. Maybe feeling unsafe or threatened.
Im just doing my job, so I just keep moving.
TMI... but...my wife hates briefs, but i need the support, so for work that’s my solution.

 

Does handing you the mail with a banana down his leg count as creepy?

 

I think that the issue described by the author is completely normal. It happens to me too, when I clean or wash myself for example. Welcome back to life without death grip, guys. Good sign that we are healing

 

But the thing I don't understand is, why would she feel threatened? I guess at night or something but say during the day? I mean I wouldn't feel threatened at all in public unless I saw this or something:

 

Not everyone needs an erection to orgasm. I could O from doing chinups/leglifts etc. Without any friction at all. Just more things to avoid.

 

Isn't it more to do with the energy you're producing and where it's going? Just my theory anyway.

 

CONTROL YOURE MIND. Dont fantasisze about sex its usally then when you get "pre cum"

trust me i've had the same problem i even ejaculated during my work it was embarising a huge sperm in my underpants while i was working.. Do you know why i was thinxing about a hot college...