Fantasizing about "situations" when having sex

Stop P and fetishes will go away with time. Meditation is good to be present in the moment. Give yourself some time to rest. Abstain full (no masturbation no porn for a good amount of days say 30) Practice meditation and then go to have sex

 

I believe a lot of guys do this, even guys that don't have issues with porn.

I have actually read it's quite common when someone has been with the same partner for a while they can begin to get less turned on by their partner.

This is why you here of couples spicing things up in the bedroom, trying different things, even using different sexual equipment ext.

I believe it is to do with the coolidge effect. So a male will get bored of the same female quite quickly, but if a new female comes along they will get super excited again and want to mate with the new female.

It is actually designed this way in nature to keep the species going. So all females are impregnated basically.

So the human brain naturally seeks novelty, and since just after the Millennium the ultimate novelty producing machine was created, high speed internet. So then you were able to get free unlimited high speed sexual novelty. It was the first time in human history you could get free unlimited sexual novelty in this way, on a platform like this. Well we all know how that turned out.

But yeah it's actually natural to be more attracted and turned on by other females if you have been with the same female for a long time. Many men and also many women will fantasise and think about other people and other things when they're having sex with someone, especially if they have been with the same person for a while. This isn't just people who have a problem with porn that do this.

Ironically most mammals don't have the same mate for life, I think there is only a small percent of mammals who do have the same mate for life. Humans are mammals, and generally humans wouldn't of had the same mate for life. It is only likely in the last few hundreds years as humans began to become more evolved they settled with one partner for life, and even then a lot of humans didn't. But a long time ago before humans were more evolved it was actually more likely humans had multiple sexual partners. Males likely ran around impregnating as many females as possible. As like I said it is actually designed this way in nature.

So ironically in these times a lot of humans actually go against their natural instinct by having one partner for life, by trying to stay faithful to one partner for life. But this mechanism the coolidge effect still remains in our brains exactly the same today as what it did a long time ago, which is the main reason many people cheat, which is the main reason many people have loads of sexual partners, which is the main reason so many people find it so difficult to stay faithful, which is the main reason so many people are hooked on high speed internet porn today.

It's the coolidge effect. We want novelty, we want something new.

Like I said it is designed this way in nature so that male mammals, which is what humans are, impregnate as many females as possible to keep the species going, and these mechanisms are still in the human brain today.