My biggest porblem is have an orgasm during sex without porn Fantasies. I have erection, and can have sex for so long but orgasm coming only when I use porn Fantasies in my mind or my gf talk to me dirty (talk about porn scenes ect). Most of the time to get orgazm i have to touch myslef, when I do sex its simpy impossible. Can rehab (no porn, no mastrubation) change it? If someone had same problem?
Yes, that is quite common. If you do a 90 day reboot, it will greatly improve or eliminate this problem as you will become turned on by living in the moment and not thinking about porn. Good luck!
Sure, it is an effect of the escalation process. As soon as you can revert it, the need for fantasies will end, and you will be able to be more present during sex.
I hope so cause I have the same problem. I had to make everything like a p to get turned on after becoming a mom. Now i have to do the same to o when I’m with my husband. After a few kids I got into this weird impregnating fetish and got pregnant and had a miscarriage that I still feel like was a punishment. I try to avoid m but lonliness and the hypersexual fantasies all day in my head make that hard. Without it I can’t o at all and my husband takes it personally. We get into fights when we try to talk about it. He’s tired of my life story and past issues and doesn’t understand why I can’t just get over the past. All our fights just go back to me getting caught camming, even though we had problems since before then.
