Evolving Addiction - High Risk Massage Parlor Activities

There is hope. I started meditating recently and found it to be helpful for me. Meditation with visualization of positive scenarios that involve all of the senses. It’s a way to trick your brain in thinking your having a real experience thus rewiring your neural pathway to the part of your subconscious that’s causing problems. It’s training your mind to think differently. I can tell you that I’m a major sex addict with sex fantasies 24/7. Can’t take it anymore because it’s making me feel disassociated with other people. Since I’ve started meditating I’m feeling more connected to others and don’t see woman as objects much anymore.

Hope some of this helps. Stay strong, it’s possible to change. I’m proof of this.

 

I used to go to massage parlors , I dont judge you. What helped me stop doing it a little over 14 yrs ago was my last time. After about 8 weeks after my last visit the local news in the area had a story on tv that said police had the place under observation for weeks. I didnt sleep for days thinking i would be getting into trouble . Thankfully nothing happened to me the massage parlor was closed and that was just the wake up call i needed to stop. Last time i drove in that area the building was torn down and is now a field .

 

High risk in massages? What type of activities, massages aren't sex you won't catch any Std

 

Oh those i never went but i went to tantric and bodytobody massages and didn't get any std since it wasn't sex and they were all very clean

 

Hey I know its tough been there myself, How far do you live from them? It may be a good idea not to be in that area you dont want to test yourself on this dont drive in those areas. I stopped going to those places because the news broke a story on my favoirite one that the cops had the place under watch, you dont want to be in there with your pants down if the cops are looking to make a story for the news and come threw the door. I could not sleep for days after that story broke it was a huge wake up call for me and it stopped me. Your married with kids would you want them to see your face on tv? You can beat this message me if you need more help

 

I dont think it was confrontational at all, You sound alot like me when i was DEEP into massage parolrs and escorts. We all no basicly the risk of doing it , I know when i was at my peak with it I even had a name for it which was "MR I DONT GIVE A SHIT" I didnt care about anything but getting those needs met . Driving to those places the last thought on my mind was getting busted , sti , getting robbed having a family member see me at those places. All which could happen but like i said I didnt give a shit .Thankfully when i was in that bad hobby the massage parlors were 35 miles away in one direction and out of my town. I wont lie to you and say i am fully cured and never think of them there are times now when if the right oppertunity arose I dont know how I would act. I still have memories of it but those memories almost always include the good never the guilt and shame i felt driving home. The offer to chat privatly on here is still good stay strong buddy

 

Hello men. I've had many, many massages, with several ending more "happy" than others. If either of you need any help in this area, please DM me. Laters gators

 

Streetwalkers, massage parlors, escorts. I've acted out with dozens of prostitutes.

For me, One is too many and a thousand is never enough.

And God is bigger than all this. So there's hope

 

I stopped going to massage parlor in my town about 8 months ago. I used to really enjoy it. Kinda a mini vacation during my day. At least that is what I would tell myself.
It got weird towards then end. The building had numerous surveillance cameras. In some of the rooms there were screens showing what was being filmed, the entrance, the main hallway, stuff like that. I was confident there weren't any cameras in the rooms.
What freaked me out was when I went to another location. They had the exact same cameras, logo, brand, style.
Also all the woman were from China. They lived in LA but would come up to my town for weeks to work. Why only Chinese? They were never from any other Asian country.
Where was that surveillance tape going? Who was going to see it? It made me very uncomfortable.
Who you are gets out eventually. What you are doing in secret will be exposed.
I stopped going to that place. I drive past it all the time. I have no temptation to go back through the door there. I forgot about it till I just sat down and am writing this.
We can all do better in life and we know it. This is one area I don't miss from my past.

 

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Good for you, the old massage parlor i used to go to got shut down by the cops and evently torn down . I dont miss the stress of all the lies and shame i felt

 

Just dont man

Do not make a demand for that kinda of service

As a ppl from asia that terryfying because many victim are tricked to work in that kinda place