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Escorts and Stds

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by BACKINCONTROL, May 23, 2022.

  1. BACKINCONTROL

    BACKINCONTROL Fapstronaut

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    So 49 days ago i went to a prostitute not kind of a regular prostitute but an luxury escort she even added me on insta and she is a former tv star , my biggest fear were stds fortunally 49 days after i hsd nothing so i think im fine

    The problem is that she send me a message that she will be again in my time with a friend( her friend is a playboy girl ) so both sre luxury escorts , i want to go she even said that she would like to do content with me and her friend for onlyfans so i have an discount ,me and the two of them it would be a moment to remember or not because on other hand i dont want , i fear for nofap, i fear to stds and i dont feel is the most correct thing to do to my morals

    But their both like "celebrity" luxury escorts one of them was a former tv celebrity the other one is a playboy girl , am i more safe from stds?
     
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  2. First, let's stop pretending that by calling them a "luxury escort" they are anything more then a prostitute. Is she taking money to have sex with random strangers? Yes, then in my book she is a prostitute. If she's willing to do this with you, then she's probably made the same offer to many other guys. I highly doubt it was a special offer, made just to you.

    Are you safe from STDs with these girls? Maybe but having sex with multiple random strangers (which is what she does) certainly increases the chances of her catching an STD and passing it onto you.
     
  3. smh_fam

    smh_fam Fapstronaut

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    No.
     
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  4. No, and on top they even may cause you some brain damage which shows in distorted thinking, a brain looking for reasons to see escorts while knowing one shouldn't is an addicted brain ;) So, street or penthouse ... addiction is addiction.
     
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  5. StayClean&Proactive

    StayClean&Proactive Fapstronaut

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    Why the fuck did you get an escort?
     
  6. The chance to get a std is the same if you have sex with a "normal" girl, just use condom
     
  7. BACKINCONTROL

    BACKINCONTROL Fapstronaut

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    I deleted her message thank for your words!
    I had a dillemma all day but eventually deleted sometimes i feel good about that others dont but deep down i know i did the right choice!
     
  8. BACKINCONTROL

    BACKINCONTROL Fapstronaut

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    Well i never being with a woman with a type of body simmilar to the pornstars.... and she was independent and kinda of a celebrity so thats why
     
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  9. Sounds like that gave your brain an extra rush, an extra kick. Like winning the jackpot in the lottery. Good you canceled. There may be people who can handle their substance use and behaviors. When it comes to escorts I cannot. So for me it is a way of acting out which became very addictive and I was on the hook for years. It wasn't fun anymore. And it cost me quite a fortune. One way to check if you are addicted is renouncing and see how body and mind react to that.
     
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  10. I'm laughing so hard. She wants you to engage in risky behavior for her own benefit, and yet has the audacity to still charge you money for your labor. My goodness, my friend.

    Also, she could be lying about being on tv. She probably only needs to look very similar to a tv star, in order to fool her fans.
     
  11. It’s a horrible addiction I fell of the wagon twice this year, and was booked for one tomorrow I hadn’t seen one for 6 months
    I’m 58 divorced never had a problem meeting woman but I was with my wife 25 years and I just don’t wanna date anymore
    so I got caught up in the escort thing
    But I stopped until June then did two.
    I thought I can control myself. No you can’t because once I opened the door again I lost control. I saved so much money this last year not seeing them.
    Then today I was trying to stop myself and my boss asked me if I wanted to work OT
    tomorrow I said hell yes. So not only did I save myself $250 but I’ll make some money too. And start getting back in control. I’m on 25mg Strattera going up to 40 tomorrow my doc bumped up my dose I just started it 30 days ago and I thinks it’s starting to help my impulse control issues.
     
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  12. Oh and you can get an STD from anyone but don’t let people fool you your average woman is not having sex with 10 or more men a week. For me the harm of the addiction was financial, health risk from std, emotional harm to yourself, I just always felt bad about myself after.
    And there all whores some just have teeth and are better looking and charge more but they all sell sex
     
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