Erection Problem in New Marraige

Hello All Fapstronauts

I am New to this forum, I am from third world country so bear my bad English. I highly appreciate your suggestions.

I am Watching doing PMO since 15 years. I tried Nofap but always relapsed in Feburary i was going to be married with a girl of my choice. I started Nofap 2 months before my marraige date but i always relapsed. And settled not fapping for only 7 days before.
All my friends said stop chewing tobbaco stop masturbating and many other things which brought my confidence level to almost zero.

On the first night of my marraige i started and got some erection but as soon as i started to put it in , i couldnt get any errection. That was very embarrasing. We slept without doing anything.

The next day i asked my friend to get some medicine so i can get some erection. He got blue pills and some Herbal syrup. Blue pill didnt worked at all though i took half. I took 2 spoon of that syrup as soon as i took that spoon my erections were rock hard. I started foreplaying in between foreplaying i go soft and after a bit it again got hard. So i put in and started the intercourse, I did for almost 45 minutes but couldnt ejaculate, i was so frustrated.

Taking that syrup was making me erect for not more then 20 minutes right after the intake so i have to do everything within these 20 minutes. Once it gets In. I can do intercourse for hours. But couldnt ejaculate.

I was damn frustated relapsed and settled on M because i was not ejaculating then after 2 months of doing all this taking syrup getting hard not ejaculating, i gave myself break for 7 days.

After 7 days I took that Syrup got hard and did Intercourse and I Ejaculated this time and also on the Next day.
But again on third day i couldnt, and on fourth day i ejaculated again.

After that we had gap in Our sex life due to some other reasons.
Now i wanted to see what was in that syrup, that syrup is known as kasturi (Musk) and I reasearched and Found nothing that it will provide erections. Dont know it was pyscological ED or PIED

As of Now We have to live in two Different Cities for a year, each month we will meet for 2-3 days.

I am want your suggestions how i can deal with this problem.
I am already clean from P = 3 Months
M+O = 10 Days

Kindly suggest me something.

 

I am very thankful to Your advice. Literally I am thinking that I broke my dick. Also I started to think that I can never get erection from my wife.

Its really very motivating to read all posts here. I dont know how much time needed to reboot. But i think I am having severe PIED.
I also started Zinc and Vitamin B suppliments and Watermelon Juice. Plus I started Exercises and Walk for 2 Miles.

I Cannot describe how pathetic thing is this porn ruined my Life.

One question Can I kiss, Hug and Touching with wife to see if i can Maintain my erection or nòt.

I am very thankful to this forum. Its ray of Hope. I will be updating my progress as well.
Anyone else can relate his story welocme to comment.

 

Thankyou so very Much.

I will follow your Instructions and Kinze as well if she can contribute here.

I will be Following No PMO religiously from now onwards