I am masturbating everyday since past 5 years.. Last month for the first time when I tried having sex.. I couldn't.. My dick didn't have much of erection and also it wasn't hard enough either.. Is this because I masturbated much or some other issue?
I believe it is all in your head. I remember when I was 18 and finally having sex with my girlfriend for the first time, I stressed about it all weekend and when the time came to do it, I could not get it up at all. I have not tried having sex till this day 6 years later and I am worried I will not be able to get it up at all. I truly believe most of the issues we experience are from to much PMO and your own stresses and insecurities.
Bro I understand you as I do myself. I had the same problem. I had chronic prostatitis and frequent urination of that. I am sure my kidney started to weaken 2-3 years ago. Delayed ejaculation is also in list. Lack of hardness of penis and low excitement from real partners, included. So I started my NoFap journey. Failed many times. I just brought up my body and mind into such an exhaustion, that it became nauseous and disgusting. But you should know that before I had used to love and get nice pleasure from PMO. And today, 23 of june, I reached one month retention from PMO. First week was hard, then frequent morning woods, but nowadays I feel nothing of that, I am in flatline. It is the period of rebooting, resetting of mind and body. Body has yet time to recover, because it is physical aspect. To be honest I never thought that that I can nofap for long, but now I understood that when you really abstain from triggers and workout to utilize your hormones, you will be free from that. And so I am in the lowest level.... that horny photos didn't excite me. In general I am happy to have brothers and to be able to share my experience. I was desperate myself but believe that it is not the end. It is fact! Hope all my brothers the luck and be strong men in society
The way you describe, sounds like you overstimulated yourself with M, probably followed by P consumption. The best way to get your erections back is to stop to fap for a while. If you have more questions, i recommend this website : morningsteel.com
Erection is reached by your mind when you like the body you see and physically when you touch and when your instrument feels. M weakens the sensitivity and P weakens the way you like women. OverPMO weakens your libido and state of health over time. If you don't have health problems, but some ED, 2-3 months retention gives you absolute benefit - hard erection. Anyway we cannot know the exact information, it depends of when you will feel yourself ready for real sex. It will give you sign and reaction at that moment. Listen to yourself and read books like SPAM REMOVED (spam code #001) - REPORT TO MODERATION way of rebooting, or rebooting as the best remedy.
Greetings brother. It's simpler than you think and thinking it on cold mineded might help your realize of these facts. I'll assume you are around age 20's, same here i'm 21, career student, stressed. Of course you might come to think that stress, non social behaviours, not eating perfectly healthy, not taking sun... Might be factors that influence ED. INDEED THEY ARE, but it's about %. I myself had sex with 2 girls at age 20, around 20 intercourses in total. Couldn't orgasm in non of those and could just reach a 80-90% erection. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! REMEMBER THAT TO ENJOY SEX PROPERLY YOU NEED A 100% ROCK HARD FULL OF DESIRE ERECTION !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Back to the topic... Will you recover your erection if you abstain from PMO? As everything in life there are exceptions: -Mental illnesses -Heavy pshysical disfunction -Mental healthy conditions such as epilepsia or traits of behaviour as antisociability BUT IF THAT'S NOT THE CASE It's highly probable that ED it's in fact a case of PIED ( porn induced erectile dysfunction) and hence a period of abstinence will reboot your brain and get back the neuronal paths to associate stymulus for looking at a woman body. BUT LET'S PUT IT IN SIMPLER WORDS. Let's assume: 1. Your hormonal levels are not the ones of a child. Your balls actually produce and work properly 2. You wank becouse there are time you are horny 3. There have been some time in life where you had to travell and non-intentionally abstained for a week. You came back and fapped in a super horny state. So basically... What if that week wasn't a week, what if it was a month? How horny you would be? Yeah your brain basically is saying... what the fuck is this woman? She isn't sexy, she isn't doing sexy poses, she isn't getting in weird camera angles, she isn't doing weird facial expression with minimal effort... And also YOU HAVE TO PUT EFFORT, make her feel good, worry about making yourself feel good... your brain goes like--- dude, this is too hard and crap. Let's go back to fapping. Easier and more entertaining... Let's keep this thinking thread. What would happen if you got stucked in a white room for months getting feed? You either would get so depressed on you would get so bored to the point that you would start getting joy from reading any book, talking to anyone, studying... And might even find so enjoyable doing pushups to kill time. !!!!!!!!!IT'S THE SAME CONCEPT!!!!!!!!! Your brain right now: yo what is this bullshit woman crap, let's go back to good old fapping. Just one non curvy woman? What is this crap, we get tons on internet Your brain in 1 month: uhmm. Yo i know i bullshited woman but... We are so horny, let's make a deal, i make you horny enough to get your way with it and then you come back to fapping. Your brain in 2 months: OKAY BRO, fuck you. Now you annoyed me, now you get complete ED hehe. Get with your flatline you bastard conscious mind Your brain in 3 month: please we are so horny, i will forget about fapping just get any woman I WILL GIVE YOU THE ENERGY AND HORMONES TO DO SO JUST DO IT PLEASE WE NEED TO REPRODUCE !!!!!!! Your brain in 4+ months: fapping? what is that crap? WE ARE HORNY NOT BORED, WE HAVE ENERGY TO ATTRACT WOMAN, BRIING THEM ON, THAT'S WHAT ENTERTAIN US!!!!!!!!!!
