Penis & Balls touching for 1min-1hr+= Edging, Edging=precum mess & painful Blueballs. *only really good treatment for blueballs is to finish, "the deed" and ejaculate"* Ejaculate/orgasm= painful orgasm, mess and therefore being a relapse.
The simple answer is this. If you're unsure whether something constitutes a relapse, then it does and you shouldn't do it.
im just saying that's once your in the haze and you've already edged don't orgasm to make a point to yourself and not reward the edge. Edging is not good I definitely know.
I do agree. And trust me, I know too!! Many wasted work days, lost productivity and just plain lost life while edging. My opinion on "is this or that a relapse?": There is no relapse court. Some folks would like to be Judge, Jury and Executioner of this the fantasy relapse court . This is the danger of perfectionism and counters. We need to get better and heal ourselves. The relapse talk is self punishment. Let's all quickly forget about falling down, get up and start running again!
Very true. That's what I was trying to do but everyone was trying to argue whether it was a relapse or not.
I agree. I think it's actually worse than getting it over quickly. Long periods of looking at erotic material just completely hammers the reward center of your brain
