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ED Question..

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by JPT1976, Oct 20, 2013.

  1. Oct 20, 2013 #1
    JPT1976

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    I am a 37 year old gay man. I have had a problem with PMO for a long time. I edged myself into oblivion and fapped pretty much every night for about 20 years. That, obviously, has led to a bit of ED. It is embarrassing that I am still relatively young and cannot keep it up for very long.

    In everybody's experience, how long does it take for that to start clearing? Would you guys please share your experiences with me? I know that everybody is different, but I am just curious.

    Thanks, guys..
     
    JPT1976, Oct 20, 2013
    JPT1976, Oct 20, 2013
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  2. Oct 20, 2013 #2
    Rhubarb

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    I started noticing the improvement after 2 days and I'm feeling less 'dead' every day. Bigger spontaneous erections every day.

    I've noticed it's important to ease off the M part in particular. Masturbating even without porn or orgasm noticeably reduces sensitivity. If I go back to limited masturbation eventually (there's a fairly large libido difference in my marriage and I may need it to cope) I'm considering using something like a FleshLight rather than going back to the desensitizing 'grip of death'.

    Do you have a supportive partner who you can talk to? Performance pressure is lousy for ED.
     
    Rhubarb, Oct 20, 2013
    Rhubarb, Oct 20, 2013
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  3. Oct 20, 2013 #3
    Blue

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    I have the same issues. A cock ring helps, but I'd rather not have to use anything. I'm only three days in, so I can't answer your question, but I can commiserate and let you know you're not alone.
     
    Blue, Oct 20, 2013
    Blue, Oct 20, 2013
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