A woman used Tinder to orchestrate her own bootleg, pop-up version of The Bachelorette. She basically tricked guys on the dating App Tinder, and then had them all show up at the same time. And then she turned it into a competition where the guys would have to compete to get a date with her. Is it any wonder why guys objectify woman when people do this kind of stuff? Wiring their brain for PMO like its socially accepted. Anybody ever heard of Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) Some guy mentioned it in the comments. Men Going Their Own Way is a mostly pseudonymous online community of men supported by websites and social media presences cautioning men against serious romantic relationships with women, especially marriage. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men_Going_Their_Own_Way Full story here https://twitter.com/i/moments/1031591093484380160
I’ve been watching many MGTOW videos this year. There seems to be different “flavors” to it. Ranges from malicious - “All Women Are Slutty Greedy Hoes” to some actually wise counsel - “Don’t Need To Have A Woman’s Validation To Live Our Lives”. I take what’s useful and leave the rest.
Some MGTOW is toxic and sexist, but the premise is fine. People should be happy and pursue their own interests, and avoid "bad deals". Not all Western women are bad, and not all non-Western women are good, but you need to be careful to avoid being used, manipulated, and taken advantage of. People need to realize that men and women are different, and have different needs and drives. They have different reproductive goals, so it's not particularly helpful for people to consider the other gender to be "selfish" or "evil". When people realize they are just following their biological programming, and others are too, it's easier to not hold things against others. Bitterness only hurts yourself. You don't have to hate or be angry with others to be cautious. It's said that bitterness is swallowing poison hoping the other person dies.
