Does masturbation makes you ugly? Based on your experience!

Please be honest answering )

 

I think so. It literally sucks the life out of you. It makes you stop caring about yourself. If you put addicts and non addicts in a lineup you could probably pick out the addicts pretty easily.

 

It could cause PMO eyes and wackback as Kenzi described in an earlier thread.

 

I really don't think so, maybe your confidence and attitude towards life will make you different but won't change your physical appearance.

For instance people going through addiction most commonly say they feel ugly and nobody wants to talk to them. The most common reason is how you're projecting yourself through attitude and confidence, so if you're depressed, have little self worth so you think you're ugly, your attitude isn't very positive because of negative thoughts or whatever, people will see that not because you physically change on the outside, but it's again projecting those feelings outward that make you seem unattractive.

People can also pick up on vibes as well, even if you look fine. Like even I can feel when someone is off or being really down on themselves and it makes them less attractive regardless of how they look, and it's not like I'm judging them for anything.

 

Yes, it does, but I hear it also causes blindness so you're all good.

 

yes! I know what you mean, I don't even like looking at my face in the mirror, and I wonder if people see that sameness that I see about my self, and that is why I can't get friends. I do put out vibes and that is why I am trying 90 days and beyond . it is hard for me to get past 3 days, and it makes my face more and more sad like, and miserable. people can read that I am sure. I am gonna take a shower and get on with my life now. with out the next escape session, that to, having to do my thing, to escape, plus, it takes my energy away. I do not like my self right now.

 

I am really trying to have a better outlook right now, so thank you for this post, it is helpful to me. I am really trying to quit M, it is like a down-word cycle, I do it cause I am lonely, then I feel bad, and not like talking with people, so then I just get more down. please I never want to m again!

 

Out of curiosity, you watch P as well as M right? Or do you just M and have never done P.

 

I do both p and m, it is hard to m. might start out that way but ends up with p. or fantasies.

 

Okay, when you say you want to stop m you mean P as well right?

 

yes that's right. p, gives me an ugly mind set inwardly. I wish I could keep m, but I feel tired after I do do it, and it's imposible to do it 2 times a month or something like that, because after doing it the next days that's all you think about. so its a all or nothing thing for me.

 

I will let you know how I am doing in a few days, if you don't mind. I really need some one in this, I know I have to make the choice, but I need to talk with someone.

 

For a lot of people especially starting out, it's really hard to separate P from M, so they go hand in hand and if you try to M usually it's back to a relapse. I don't necessarily think M is bad in my opinion, it's just when you've abused it for so long and turned it into an addiction or habit that's when it's a problem.

So even I am abstaining from both M and O to get a clear mind and stop wasting energy from doing it as well. So far it's worked out way better stopping everything even if I'm still struggling, but that's how it is with an addiction no matter what happens just stick to your goal and remind yourself why you stopped in the first place.

That's fine, let me know how it goes.