Do you really want a gf?

I'd only have sex with a woman that I'd truly love, not with any random woman off the streets.

 

I have not known yet my soul mate but i waiting for her love. The reason is why i want to be with a girl is the passion what her love provides to me. I am waiting for those eyes which are makes me happy, those hands what caresses when i feel blue, her body what just mine. In my last realitionship I was together with a beautiful girl. She loved me but I didn't enjoy the sex with she and I can't made she happy because I was not fall in love with she. So what's the edification? I think sex is just a part of relationship.
I am from Hungary and our languagle is describes the wife well. Wife is in our languagle : feleség. 'fele' is meaning the half. So your wife is your half and I think if you fall in love with a girl she will be your half. She always there - and it's very close. It becomes one and this is beautiful feeling!
Realitionship is one of the most mysterious thing in our life. This is one of the reasons why I joined to this forum. I want to read another people problems, feelings, thoughts. So the reason why I want to be with a girl... to be loved, love to give.

 

When I see a certain random girl in the streets that I find attractive, I'm obviously gonna look. I don't really say much in my head though. If she's really attractive, I'd say "Damn! She's so beautiful."

 

So basically you want to use women for sex - Women are just there to consumed and used and then thrown out? This maybe harsh but it sounds like that's what you think. I'm not perfect and have looked at porn and viewed women as nothing but sexual objects. I know it's wrong and don't want to do it anymore and that's the main reason why I come to this site.

I get a gf can at times be annoying, but so can any other human being. So if you want to avoid annoying people it's best to have nothing to do with your family and have no friends. Just stay on your own on a deserted island and have nothing to with anyone.

And really you're not having sex if you are just there to have pleasure - you're only having just sex rather than having a full sexual experience. A full sexual experience means having a connection. But at end of the day it's your life. Personally I wouldn't say no to playing a board game with a beautiful girl, board games can be fun and playing a board game can be a sexual experience anyway because your making a connection while your playing it. I think having just sex is like going out to see a great movie but only watching the first ten minutes because you have to send some silly tweets to Kanye West and check your profile picture on Facebook.

Personally I want to get a womans mind before I get to know her body.

 

That was perfectly said, of you, man! I absolutely agree with what you're saying.

 

u got my point bros, congratz. To the author: it will pass with the time as you learn more on life.

 

True!

 

Dude If I found a woman who enjoys board games I would probably kidnap her.

I don't get the point of your original post. Who are you trying to convince, yourself or others?
It's great that you are aware of what you want in a relationship and I truly recommend you be honest with the females you interact. There are women who want exactly what you want.

 

There is a miracle in marriage where two become one. This is somewhat preached in the Bible, but instead of thinking of it as a religious thing, just think of it as a universal truth. Yin/Yang and life force balance all convey this concept. Protons and electrons create the elements in their duality. Watch videos of some successful 50- or 75-year marriages and see how those couples treat one another. There is a trust built on serving one another and sacrificing hedonistic pursuits for love of the other person. All that reaching beyond one's self changes, and with the other person's efforts, creates something new. It cements into a relationship that can last forever. And, it is something beyond one's self, a dead spouse is mourned from then on. I haven't achieved this, but I'm working on it and do see progress with a decade in my relationship. Just some food for thought.

 

A feeling better than having sex with a woman

Having a woman completely in love with you. To the point you don't personally understand how someone could love you that much. I think there is a saying somewhere that says 'a man only truly loves himself as much as the love he sees in a woman's eyes'.

I know I only truly started developing a sense of self-compassion when I starting being with my current GF.