Do women really "come to you" when you level up as a man?

I have been working on myself every day since I was 19, so that's 7 years. I have implemented concrete actions like going to the gym, eating healthily, working on my posture, dressing well, working on my insecurities, my self-esteem, charisma, etc. I have approached thousands of women on the street over 7 years. I am a perfectionist, so I think I have done the maximum I could.

The only aspect I do not place importance on is the financial aspect. I don't care about being rich; it's not something high on my scale of values. Although I make a decent living, I am not rich. So, it's the only aspect I am not familiar with, and I don't know if it really influences women. I have known rich guys who are completely useless because they put all their bets on that, forgetting that what you think of yourself often determines your relationships. And money doesn't change that (that's my opinion). In short, what I can conclude from all these years is that NO: women do not come to you and will not come to you. People still don't care as much, and I'm not just talking about women. Everyone thinks of themselves because everyone has their own life to manage. It always takes a certain amount of effort to meet people.

However, working on oneself makes it easier to face adversity in your life. And that has greater value than obtaining ephemeral validation from women you don't know. For me, it's a myth. You live in a world where people are indifferent, and most of your relationships are based on the interest you show in people: people stay with you because you bring them something or they have something to gain from you. Now, becoming better allows you to love yourself, and when you love yourself a little more than the day before, you can make better choices. You can be yourself, accept yourself and meet people who love you for who you really are.

But no, women do not come to you.
That doesn't mean NO woman will ever make the first move with you, it's just rare and they won't do it because you've become better. People don't see the work you do on yourself, even less so those who don't know you.

 

Haha. This boy is funy.

 

Seeking things like Love, feelings, comfort, this is destined to get you one of these independent females. You need to change your values. Your values should be Responsibility, Work, Character, Finance, etc.

What is it, you didn't have a father to teach you this? @Spiritues

 

you are my new father

 

I stopped changing myself to appeal to multiple women. I can do it, I have done it, but that didn't feel right with who I was becoming.

I left a couple of chics cold, because they didn't change their ways.

I'm done supplicating to women to get sex or worst "love". I can do better women, I have better things to do.

 

You are the King, father

 

Women are strange and it's almost impossible for a regular guy to figure out how to make women "come to you." What I found is women like a confident man, that seems to be #1. After that, there's a whole lot of factors that make them attracted to you, but I found if they laugh with me, it's a good sign.

Lastly, one time when I was in a slump and trying really hard to attract women, I gave up. I didn't care, and I found my indifference towards the women I was speaking to drove them crazy. They started pursuing me more than ever. Weird, but once I stopped caring, they came to me from everywhere. I was dating 5 women at once, all friends with benefits.

Good luck, if you figure out the answer to your question, please share it. Men for thousands of years have wondered the same thing.

 

Your faith in me should be unquestioned.