Do we deserve to be cheated on?

I'm not sure I follow your logic. Why would looking at porn while single justify someone cheating on you later on? I could sort of see your point if you were watching porn while in a relationship, and neglecting your partner, but even that doesn't justify cheating.

 

If you are just starting a relationship with someone new, and never had the conversation that it was time to be in a committed relationship then I would not call it cheating. But if you are in a committed serious relationship, then i think no one deserves to be cheated on.

 

@onceaking I don't know if you saw my reply to you but both mine and your comments were removed for talking about religion. I can't be bothered typing it all up again.

 

lol

 

Honestly at this point the list of things you can't talk about seems longer than the list of things you can. OP directly mentioned religion, so I responded in kind. All I did was answer his question. If even doing that is against the rules then it's a stupid rule.

 

you are intelligent! like me I like to discuss religion and advise others how to get better etc I agree typing can tire you out

 

Self-hatred is one of the fundamental driving forces of addiction. and thats all this post looks like to me. "guilt says you did a bad thing, shame says you ARE bad." Watch Terry Crews:

 

You know what? Hating yourself will just keep you exactly where you are right now: going down a rabbit hole.
Stop this self-hatred thing, no decent girl would ever get anywhere near someone with such a behaviour.
If you don't like yourself, why should women get attracted to you?
Seems that you're afraid of getting into a relationship because of this porn / cheating thing you've made up.

 

It doesn't make sense. Do you think that you deserve to be humiliated, cheated, betrayed by some reason because you saw P stuff? I agree that watching it is definitely cheat your partner, once you ARE in a relationship.

Let's suppose you are now rebooted and got a partner and he/she cheats you, of course you don't deserve it, you will be disrespected with no reason.

You are saying the same : "I don't see a problem being cucked because once i watched cuck stuff (pornography)."

That doesn't make sense, i can't agree with your vision.

 

if you keep hating yourself, you will discover a new layer of hell and torment that will continue to get worse, and you may never recover from it. Self-hatred is like gasoline on the fire of self-harming addictions (PMO, drugs, alcohol, etc.) If untreated, will usually lead to jail, suicide, or both.

and Self-hatred leads to truly awful things, not just for yourself, but for others too.

We all deserve peace and respect. Begin with yourself, challenge this addiction, and start living the better life you know you are capable of.