Disconnect

Discussion in 'Partner Support' started by Vixen, Oct 31, 2018.

  1. Vixen

    Vixen Fapstronaut

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    I’m on a “self care” tour trip to visit family and get space from PA husband. This morning I discover he uninstalled the accountability software on his phone without even discussing with me first. I’m mortified. Whatever possibility of us making things work upon my return has now been disintegrated to near impossibility in my mind.
     
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  2. JustSadPorn

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    Ugh, I'm so sorry. Did he inform you that he uninstalled, or did you see that within the software report?

    If you saw it in the software, it's possible that it was a technical glitch. Perhaps the phone OS upgraded, and the software did not, or something along those lines. Buggy accountability software has caused problems for several couples on the forums. Just something to investigate before throwing in the towel. If it's a technical problem, your husband should immediately take steps to restore the software.

    Of course, if he did actually uninstall it, that's very disrespectful to your marriage. You have every right to be upset.
     
  3. Vixen

    Vixen Fapstronaut

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    He told me via email in conjunction with removing the software. I had experienced glitches/delays with the software before but this time his device was removed completely, as were all the previous records. Very suspicious.
     
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  4. JustSadPorn

    JustSadPorn Fapstronaut

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    That's terrible. I'm sorry.
     
  5. GhostWriter

    GhostWriter Fapstronaut

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    You said he told you via email. Ask him. Ask him point blank "why"? And let's see what lame ass excuse he comes up with. Very suspicious indeed. See, you're following your "Gut Instincts". That's really great to see.
     
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