Did you ever have a chance?

Amen! Hope this guy is a troll cause if this guy believes everything he’s saying then I don’t even know what to think. Hope I never meet someone like that in real life.

 

Sure you are. Anyway I was coming back to edit my comment to take out the whole hope I don’t meet someone like this in real life. Posted in before I was fully awake, and recognize I was just speaking out of frustration.

Honestly I have a hard time believing this is who you really are. But if this is then I wish you all the best and hope you find resolution of your problems. I would recommend some humility though.

 

And what are you doing about it? I know people who have overcome the abuse they’ve experienced. Why aren’t you?

 

Sure but only you can change yourself. No one else is going to change that. Having a girlfriend and having sex isn’t going to change that. Nor do your past negative experiences excuse you of perpetuating your negativity. If you were to dare look at the atrocities that have occurred to people in other parts of the world and in the past you would hopefully realize how lucky you are. The fact that you have time to waste on forums should be sign enough that you actually have a life better than most people that have ever existed. Your not a slave, people aren’t trying to eradicate your race, and you probably don’t face the risk of being bombed in your sleep or while at the market.

This doesn’t mean I don’t feel sympathy for your plight. However if you’re not willing to face hard truths then you’ll never over come your own negativity. If you want real change to happen, if you want positivity to exist in your life then our need to listen to those who know and not just brush off every piece of advice given you.

You sound like a spoiled child most of the time. I think it’s time you get over yourself. Or your just a troll in which case hopefully what I say helps someone else who actually is struggling.

 

Empty? How? I should do like everyone else and give up on this thread.

 

Usually repetition is how you improve at something... so how do you improve? Oh wait I think I read that you have done more than any other human being on planet earth. Maybe you could give me some pointers. So I should quit nofap cause it’s all a bunch of bs right? And then if anything good happens in my life it’s cause I was lucky and had nothing to do with any effort I put in. So basically I can just stop trying at anything. I’m sure my wife and kids will appreciate that. I’ll just inform them that the greatest human being on planet earth said that it’s all luck anyway.

 

You’re speaking straight facts on you your threads. And I think my one year streak might be done. Everything your saying is true

 

i've had so many chances. i was porn with social anxiety as a kid id be afraid of everything: rollercoasters, competition, falling, etc.
than when college came and girls showed increasing attention, my anxiety spiraled and what made it worse was the pressure from pmo and marijuana. (yes weed)
id be so paranoid from the weed, and have performance anxiety from pmo that id just not even approach a lot of them.
id blame myself and never really looked at the bad habits ive done.
porn does affect your chances of getting or even keeping women.
stop using porn before your life is just as unfulfilling as mine has been.