Did I fail?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by SorryWontSayIt, Sep 19, 2017.

  1. SorryWontSayIt

    SorryWontSayIt Fapstronaut

    470
    766
    93
    Okey, I know we need to stay away from porn etc.

    My question is, where does "porn" start. Does like pictures count and sex scenes in movies that are really intense?

    Got some nudes from a girl that maybe want to hook up, but I am not too intrested in her. Does that count? Did she just break my streak?
     
  2. Plutonium

    Plutonium Fapstronaut

    263
    386
    63
    No. That's just part of modern day flirting.

    It is little different from her coming into your bedroom and getting undressed.

    Imho nude pictures of a woman you know shared with you by her does not qualify as porn.
     
    SorryWontSayIt likes this.
  3. SorryWontSayIt

    SorryWontSayIt Fapstronaut

    470
    766
    93
    Thank you, really got me worried that just some pictures was going to destroy my progress. I am not far, but still - would have to delete all my social media accounts if so, hehe.
     
  4. SorryWontSayIt

    SorryWontSayIt Fapstronaut

    470
    766
    93
    One more question: I saw some pictures of escorts too today. Does that count? Holy shit I have to get shit together!

    Did not think the struggel was so real...
     
  5. If you are receiving (and sending) nudes - why?

    You are doing hard mode. That means NO porn NO edging or masturbation and No orgasm (unless it happens in a dream).

    What will nude pictures do to you? You may tell yourself, it is not porn. But will it weaken your resolve to abstain from PMO?
     
  6. SorryWontSayIt

    SorryWontSayIt Fapstronaut

    470
    766
    93
    I did not ask for them, and I never sent here any nudes. But she was drunk, and she a bit intrested it seems. I got in on snapchat so I could not know it was nudes until I opened them.

    And does the escort / stripper sites make a relaps?
     
  7. OK mate, fair enough.
    If there were nude pictures (even thumbnails), yes! If not, just being on such a site can be arousing and may be a p/sub for you. Only you know in your own conscience why you were there and if you were hoping for and wanting a "buzz" from it. :rolleyes:
     
  8. SorryWontSayIt

    SorryWontSayIt Fapstronaut

    470
    766
    93
    Thank you for the fast answer! I guess I will reset my counter, I want to do this the real way, with no excuse! As you say, it is a reason why I went there.
     
  9. Yeah, it had to be. Well done for being honest. Being strict can be uncomfortable, but it is the best and most effective way to recover from this shit. Good luck! :)