Depression after having sex with another guy

Another man turned you on to the point that you wanted and DID have sex with him….

I don’t know your situation, whether you are severely addicted to porn and have escalated beyond the extremes, but at this point, I can’t agree with you that you are heterosexual after what you’ve written, but I’m not gonna label you as only you know what you truly are.

To answer your question, I don’t believe masturbating to relieve you of these troubles would be a good idea, I doubt it will help.

 

Nah, don't masturbate, won't do any good nor will it be beneficial. It's like drinking beer after a hangover from whiskey or rum . Get a sober mind again and that you gain best by remaining abstinent. Also don't bash yourself for what happened. It's not a matter of being gay/bi or not. Men having sex with men is not a crime nor a life sentence. Human beings can't always be labelled. Labels can be a problem. Especially when a label has a negative connotation. He turned you on though it was you who agreed. So it was mutual. No one got hurt. Keep an eye on the burning feeling, most likely it will go away as from fucking you cannot harm your urinal tract And if you did not use a condom (which you should) then next time don't fuck at all or use a condom. Then you are totally safe. Relax and move on with your straight life. And no more porn!

 

There’s your problem right there.

 

Well, you had sex with a guy, so you must be biseksual

But whats the problem with being biseksual?

 

So why in the world didn't you reject that filthy friend of yours?

 

You better find wisdom in your young life.
Then you learn to see what is the right way for you without the need to "try things out".
Now you feel guilty and ashamed because you didn't have wisdom.

 

How many of us as teenagers were wise? Very few. Most of us learn from trial and error. Wisdom comes with experience.

 

Yes but also by knowledge and good parent examples.
I know some very wise teenagers.

 

Aside from the effects of porn, one of the problems is that (it sounds like) you had sex with someone you were not attracted to in that way. It also sounds like you used this person to get off. I think this has less to do with sexuality and more with your need to develop a sex positive experience with someone you like. Don't beat yourself up, just try to be better next time and more loving toward a sexual partner.

 

Experiences do not define you. Many people have experimented with both genders. Perhaps you're actually bi or gay or perhaps you were just horny.
Go to the doctor if you're really worried about the burning. I have heard that sometimes anal can give you an infection and it's not even a "real" STD.

 

My best friend who I grew up with ended up having sex with me; it ruined our friendship and he became obsessed with doing it again, our pure friendship was forever gone. Me and him are not gay nor do I believe you have to be gay to have gay sex. I think when two people become close enough those things can happen and I will forever regret and hate myself for what I did with him. I believe homosexuality is not natural and against Gods pure plan for sex, when you cross that line expect negative consequences to follow.