I am literally the most depressed I have ever been. I have been given the opportunity to have sex with a good amount of beautiful women. One I was practically in love with after not doing anything sexual for years with her. When I was finally given the opportunity to have sex with her awhile back my body decided to not work even though I never had issues before. I feel completely hopeless. All I want is a normal sex life and not have to worry about being able to please a girl. All my friends always brag about all the hookups they have which I could really care less about because I am not much of a hookup person anymore. However, if I can't even please a girl I am with at some point then I don't know what to do. I need some reassurance here. I am going day by day doing this challenge. Does it actually work for some people? Will I ever be normal?
Yes, you will. It can take up to a few months depending on how bad your addiction is. But you should know that performance anxiety can be another underlying cause of the issue. Also, don't focus on what your friends tell you. "Don't believe what you hear and only half of what you see". This is about YOUR life, not theirs.
That's the easy part. Start by using more parts of your body to pleasure her. Sex is not just about penetration, you can show that you care about her getting off and that you're creative. That's the way I approached it.
I am all about foreplay etc. I take my time and do things right but still nothing typically works for me.
