Dependency on family members

My big issue in regards to loneliness is that I, in order to get out of the house/bedroom, am forced to spend a lot of time at either my auntie's house or sister's house. This is due to a lack of friends and people I can socialize with. I am very empathic so I can sense when I'm not wanted. The worst is when I leave the house to go see them and they've gone out, the loneliness just sinks in your stomach. I was very much a mammy's boy as a child and she gave me endless attention, so after she died there just became this void. I remember feeling how nice it would be just to get a hug as sad as it sounds. Anyway, whine over. Does anyone know any sites for people with autism/ocd/adhd etc where I could speak to people/ make friends who are compatible with me?

 

Thanks my brother. This was a really nice thing to read today. Great advice too BTW.