Death Grip / PIED

Hi all,

Would really appreciate lots of answers and advice to this.

A bit of background on myself...

I have been using P since I was about 13/14 and as nobody shows you how to M, I’ve recently discovered I’ve used the death grip. Due to this, I can simply not O with sex and always have to M after we have finished to O.

I’m now 28 and have been with my current gf for 18 months. When we first started sleeping together, she was loving the fact I was able to go for ages without O. However recently, I can tell she’s starting to dislike sex because of this and I think she’s feeling like I’m maybe not as sexually attracted to her as I was at the start. This is not the case at all.

I came across Nofap recently and have been reading a lot of posts about PIED and DE. It makes perfect sense that the vagina is not as tight as when I M, do I’m naturally not going to feel the same sensations.

This is my 7th day no P/M/O. Last night we had sex and took the build up slow to let tensions rise rather than rushing in to it. She gave me oral and for the first time in my life, I was actually able to feel something. We then had sex in 4 positions and I managed to stay hard for the first 3.

After my gf finished, she asked me if I would like finishing off. I said no it’s for the best as id have to go back to day 1 of no M as I really want the death grip gone.

Obviously it’s nice to be able to go for ages but its disappointing when I have to finish myself off and we would like to have children at some point in the future.

So my question for people in a relationship is, will I eventually be able to finish naturally during sex if I am persistent with this?