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DE AND PIED - how to recover ?

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by G_86, Jun 5, 2018.

  1. Jun 5, 2018 #1
    G_86

    G_86 Fapstronaut

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    a few years ago i met a girl and we had sex. it was very hot : lots of positions, at least 45 min of intense action, and my penis was responding as a very good soldier.unless... i had to finish myself by my own hand to feel the death grip. wichi is a case of DE, at that time already

    because... it was seven years ago

    since then, abstinence, loneliness and... porn. at the first was just lesbian porn, playboy, pictures. But now my urge for porn has became compulsive. PMO is all i cared for during all these years. And recently i date this sublime woman, expert in sensuality, and no libido at all. It strucked me as lightntning : porn is to blame : after exercising my death grip in front of a screen for ages, it seems thats the only thing that can make me reach an E, and an O (very quickly most of the time) is this abomination they call porn. I feel bad about this

    i want to quit pmo for good. i want to recover sex health. is abstinence really efficient ?
    i d like shared experiences about this, really, because i am so addict it's like my brain works that way now. can it be change just by abstinence ?

    ty for your help, and god blesses this community
     
    G_86, Jun 5, 2018
    G_86, Jun 5, 2018
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  2. Jun 5, 2018 #2
    Kermie87

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    Hey Man

    I was addicted to PMO for over 17 years, I've been married for 8 of those years. I found myself being very selfish when I viewed Porn, when my wife would say no i would turn to PMO. Even after we would have PIV i found myself not stimulated by that so i would PMO right after. The Biggest shock was when I started experiencing PIED.

    Ever since I came clean to my wife 173 days ago, i've done a lot of reading and research. Porn is a very powerful addiction that is very difficult to beat (jokes aside). Triggers are all around your day to day life and it's very hard to avoid. The best thing I did was find somebody I trusted and talk to them about it. I did a hard reboot for 90 days and it was difficult. It worked for a while but i've just recently started experiencing some PE. It's a real kick to the knackers and your confidence as a man.

    Find things to better your life and better health. Try not to fixate on the problem because that will only cause anxiety and make the situation worse. Eventually it will be a thing of the past and a place you never want to return.

    Good luck
     
    Kermie87, Jun 5, 2018
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