Hi Everyone! I am celebrating 90 days with no PMO and no MO. However, I have been having quite a bit of sex with several different girls. Warning, this post may contain some triggers based on my experiences. Last night I experienced what I think was premature ejaculation for the first time. I have suffered with DE since I was a teenager. Last night, I don't think I lasted more than about 3 minutes with no condom with an ok-looking girl who has been a regular partner. However, about a month ago, I picked up a girl while on a trip that was a gorgeous thin, blond, marshal arts instructor. We wore a condom and I was unable to climax. Is it possible to have DE and PE? Is it situational? Has anyone else experienced such a wide swing from one extreme to another?
I think using or not using the condom is causing the DE and the PE. I'm not advocating that you don't use a condom for safe sex, but once you find a partner that you can trust, ditch the condom and see if you can last longer without it. I hated using condoms in my single days and would really have to focus to climax.
