What's up guys. I am back as promised, day 60 y'all. 7 days away from getting to my highest streak. 8 days away from breaking it. I feel so bloody amazing. Recently went for a job interview and it went so well. Met a couple of people and my confidence is finally back. If you read my last post, than you know this is a big thing for me. Considering the fact that I had lost everything due to my porn addiction. Been unemployed for over 2 years and finally I celebrated day 60 with a new job on the way. I feel so blessed and grateful. I won't add much on this thread. So without further delay, let me get to the good stuff. Day 60 Results: •Extra Motivated •Confident (not fully as of yet, like I used to be) •Focused •Less moody •finally have the need to always be out and about. •Decrease in stress and anxiety •Searching and meeting women like I used to. •Making new friends Like I said, this would be a quick one. A few steps of advice that I used, to get to my goals are: •Stay away from looking at the days •Stay Busy. Find something to do. Gym, hanging with friends or family or even a hobby. •Avoid social media platforms that might heighten your risk of relapsing. Like Instagram •Write down how you feel after a relapse and go back to those same notes when you start urging. •Once again. Keep busy, keep busy, keep busy. See you guys on day 90. And remember, There is still a long way to go, even after day 90. Do not let these numbers fool or stress you. We all in the same battle, whether you on 3, 15 or 400. We still fight the same demons daily. Thank you, and have a nofap day, everyday.
what changes did you feel at around day 40? im day 43 and i cant name one good benefit i feel i also had a 47 day streak, same
I’ve had some small streaks of like 2 week couple of times but sometimes it feels great after 2 weeks sometimes it don’t and this is mainly due to the different things you have done in those streaks . I mean if you stay positive, work hard , medidate , stay happy , have no negative energy your streak will turn out to be good . This is my opinion
Hey budd. Sorry for replying late, I tend to forget about the forum and it helps me a lot, keeps me away from looking at my streaks. Anyway. On day 40, I think thats where my flatline began. I was feeling depressed and alone a lot, and at that point my brain was trying to convince me to relapse as it will make me feel better. I continued to fight through. This continued up until day 60. My stress and anxiety levels dropped. I feel much more in control once again. The same way I felt on my first 30 days. Day 40 you would expect so much but I think anywhere after the 30th day, you should expect to feel nothing. It's very normal. It's all about how strong you are mentally at the time. Your brain starts to convince you that you are doing all this for nothing, cause you feeling nothing. Keep going and you will start to feel whole again. It gets better. It goes away. Our journeys might also not be the same. You might start feeling the Real benefits after day 90 or even on day 50. Hope this helps.
