Day 42 - Kissing leading to...

Hello Everyone, (possible triggers - not sure)

Need some advise.. I'm on day 42 of my reboot PMO.

Last 2 days I was making out with a girl (first time since my reboot if not longer) and noticed I had quite a bit of precum in my shorts when I got home - after both make out sessions (which lasted a few hours).

Now would this mean I need to reset my counter as I released some fluids? It wasn't an orgasm or anything nor was it intentional... Got quite a few hard on's while making out but wasn't hard the whole time.

I'm 34 years old - been pom'ing since age 12 - started with sports illustrated magazines slowly progressed to softcore then vas videos then as internet became more and more accessible so did my habit. PMO'ed just about everyday once a day for the last 10+ years.

Never really had any relationships or sexual partners. Last few sexual experiences were a fail due to my inability to get hard...

Don't really want to let down my new partner so taking it slow... should I wait the entire 90+ days to attempt sex and things slow?

Thanks to all you guys for your success stories - sure gives me a lot of hope.

 

Yes, nofap has definitely helped me get into this relationship.

It's all part of the superpowers - much more confidence - no holding back - becoming a go getter and letting her and other people know how I feel. If people dont like what I have to say it dosen't bother me anymore. Much more happier in life - stopped smoking pot - stopped drinking alcohol - started working out - eating and living a much healthier lifestyle and loving every bit of it.

You can do it man - just confidence in yourself - believe in yourself and focus on your goals in life - women will come - trust me I always had a lot of options with women but never pursued and always looked the other way - never had the confidence to engage and always doubted myself. Ever since I stopped fapping its been a game changer!!!

My only concern is will I still be able to get hard and stay hard when engaging in sex with her...