Day 35 Benefits And Challenges

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by TheGr8Mattsby, Oct 5, 2019.

  1. TheGr8Mattsby

    TheGr8Mattsby Fapstronaut

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    I have gained so much from reading current and older success stories - I find I always gravitate to the ones that list benefits - after all most of us are doing this to get something out of it, whether so called "super powers" really exist or not. I am currently on day 35 of hard mode - no porn or fapping. The longest I have gone without masturbation or porn for 20 years.

    I did experience a flat-line from perhaps Day 10 to Day 20. Horrible anxiety, insomnia, lethargy, depression and of course an overwhelming desire to use again.

    Benefits:

    -Better able to concentrate and complete tasks
    -Insane bursts of energy (note that this tends to occur when urges are the strongest. If I am able to channel this energy I can get a lot done.)
    -Social anxiety much improved. I have always been a reticent and shy person so this is of course still the norm, but I am less shy than before.
    -Radiant skin and eyes. After a month I could definitely notice it - I'm not sure on the science behind this but it is definitely true.
    -Fuller hair - another one I was skeptical of. Before I started I was balding noticeably. I still have a recessive hairline but my hair is noticeably thicker around the bald spot. Really remarkable.
    -More motivation - let's be serious, as a man, much of what I do in the world is geared toward attracting a female and building a family. Pretty simple and to deny this is going against myriad examples in nature.

    All of these benefits are wonderful but I will say two things. My urges are still, in a word, explosive. It is pretty much a daily battle not to go back to PMO.

    The second thing I want to mention is that PMO is absolutely a way to mask other problems or issues in your life that it's easier not to deal with. Once you stop the anxiety, hurt, shame, etc. will come back with a vengeance. This in the long run is a good thing, and has to be dealt with, but it is anything but easy.
     
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  2. Very true what you are saying! Well done! Keep it up!!
     
  3. Mighty83

    Mighty83 New Fapstronaut

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    Well done, keep it up!
     
  4. Pucchiji

    Pucchiji Fapstronaut

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  6. StoneyTrevor

    StoneyTrevor Fapstronaut

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    Great job keep those experiences and enjoy them!