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Dating apps while rebooting?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Irishred91, Feb 16, 2024.

  1. Irishred91

    Irishred91 New Fapstronaut

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    What's y'all's opinions on using dating apps while rebooting?

    If you're a single guy and don't know how else to meet women, and you're not on the app looking for sex but rather a genuine connection with someone?

    Do you think it comes down to intent and purpose of using the apps while rebooting?
     
  2. Be Inspired

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    I have repeatedly heard the recommendation to have at least a year of continuous abstinence before starting to date. I am at five full months of continuous abstinence by the grace of God, and I do not at all feel ready to date. I am in the middle of PAWS and longterm withdrawals. I am not in any kind of mental shape at the moment that is suitable for dating.

    Also I used to act out to PMO around the dating apps so they are off-limits for me.
     
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  3. Dating apps are basically soft core porn, I tried tinder and deleted it the same day, also infested with scammers and the ratio of different genders is not proportionate.
     
  4. Yin&Yang-Yūki

    Yin&Yang-Yūki Fapstronaut

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    Go nofap a whole year and lets see if you can approach people or not.
     
  5. A Soul

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    Maybe you can create an algorithm for swiping that prevents you from inevitably indulging in girls' profiles? For example, look away from your phone - or close your eyes - and swipe randomly to the left, or right, every three swipes, and the other direction for all swipes inbetween.

    I recommend this because of my last experience with a dating app. The sensation of viewing girls' profiles, analyzing and evaluating them, was feeding my 'addicted mind'. In other words, I felt that engaging in that activity further empowered my addiction to lust, sexualization/objectification of women, etc.
     
    Last edited: Feb 17, 2024
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