Dating an older woman

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by wethebest, Oct 14, 2018.

  1. Veritech

    Veritech Fapstronaut

    I think that the days of the guy always being taller, older, same race, making more money, heterosexual, etc. are long in the past.

    If you like her and she likes you and you have a decent connection; that is all that matters.
     
  2. Motiv3

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    I'm 22M and I would F even a 45 yo female.
     
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  3. Ra's Al Ghul

    Ra's Al Ghul Fapstronaut

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    Why stop at 45? I met some hottiesm older than that.
     
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  4. Motiv3

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    Just to give him an example, I would F any hot women I don't give a f bout age lol
     
  5. silvio pellico

    silvio pellico Fapstronaut

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    Ok so I'm 18 and in the gym I met this girl which I like and there's "feeling" between us. Yet shess 28.
    I mean everyone says I look older than my age (22) but still I'm not sure how to ask her out. With all my ex girlfriends there were about my age and dating was easy. I dontd know but I feel it would be weird asking her to take a coffee. Childish-like.
    Do you guys have any advice on what to keep in mind when dating a woman 10 years older than you??
    Thx
     
  6. MetaGame

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    Well women that are in their 20's are generally still young in mind often. Its not so much her age but how mature she actually is and not how you look but the level ur willing to step up. Keep in mind someone that age prob wont be interested in fun or just games. She is closing on 30 and may have a kid or want kids lol. This doesnt have to be true its just a fair warning. I just hit 30 and I can tell u very often if a nice woman isnt taken by around this age there is a good reason why. Sometimes its a reason you can help her overcome and sometimes its one they have already resolved themselves but basically its not that they are 10 years ahead of u its what happened during those 10 years?

    Anyway tbh I'd suggest u dont over think it and wait for the apparent issues to reveal themselves. Just be careful, I know some older women just want a young guy to play with and control. And I dont mean that in a judgemental way I've had female friends make this abundantly clear. Sometimes they consider younger men safer and more obedient which is often true. Men do this as well with younger women sometimes.

    My basic advice is go for it but pay attention to the flags. Older women are just women. Be a nice confident guy and see what happens.
     
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  7. HuwhiteMale

    HuwhiteMale Fapstronaut

    I'm currently seeing a lady 8 years my senior. I don't have a problem with that and obviously she doesn't. Of all the reservations I have when it comes to which women I deal with, age isn't one of them. You say you are 21 and your girl is 23? That's hardly a difference worth sweating. Do your reboot, be a gentleman, and court her and see how it goes.
     

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