cum into her counts as no_fap?

Few things:

First, exactly what is your goal in your healing? It says no porn, no masturbation and no orgasm in your counter.

You didn't do porn with her. Good.
You didn't do masturbation with her. Good (Fap is a short term for Masturbation)
You did orgasm (ejaculation) in her vagina. That's orgasm - relapse right there.

But, on the other hands, many men and I am one of those too believe that natural sex with a woman should be our ultimate goal. Not through masturbation or through women. You DID that. So that's HEALTHY that you did it naturally with a girl

However, you did ejaculate (relapse through orgasm), so if I were you and start a new counter, I'd modify my goals:

Porn-No
Mastubration - No
Orgasm - Yes (only through intercourse with a girl)

hope this is helpful?

 

Keep in mind, for some men, ejaculation in a girl's vagina can affect the healing of PMO because ejaculation affects the dopamine pleasure in your brain. So keep that in mind on where and what you really want to heal from?

 

There's no legitimate difference between ejaculating through masturbstion and ejaculating inside of vagina, because the only difference is that one is inside of a hole, the other one isn't. One requires your hand, one doesn't.

 

Anyone else read this in a Russian accent?

Wow. Just...wow.

 

Why?

 

A key chemical difference between masturbation and sex is oxytocin. Sex increases it. It increases testosterone, sociability, and (in my experience) ejaculate volume. It's the bonding / trust hormone and we need it to be healthy. Another reason why human touch is good for you.

 

Did you get her pregnant?

 

I don't jack off to porn all the time.

 

Isn't their ways to release oxytocin from emotional and mental intimacy?

 

That is how oxytocin production is stimulated.

 

But can you produce oxytocin through mental and emotional intimacy without sex?

 

Sex isn't necessary. It's about bonding / trust. Playing team sports and hanging out with good friends and family can do the same.

 

That makes sense. That's probably why people even fall in love.