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Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Blop12, May 27, 2016.

  1. Blop12

    Blop12 Fapstronaut

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    girl I like at my school never talked to her smiles at me st school sometimes but she's really popular I have her Facebook and snapchat but I don't know if i should message her or not, opinions? And how?
     
  2. Rikarwb

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    It's what i always tell people. You don't lose anything by messaging / talking to your crush.

    And even, if you fuck it up by doing something awkward that leads to her ignoring you for the rest of your life ( which obviously won't happen :D ), learn from that mistake and move on. Plenty of fish in the sea.

    Uhm ... with your phone. You can type with your fingers :D

    I'm joking about it because you're complicating. Just say "hi", start to know her. Then you can invite her out. The max she can say is " I'm sorry, i don't want to go". Then you'll know she is out of your league, but until then :D Try.

    Good luck :)
     
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  3. Blop12

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    I'll try and build up the courage to do so!
     
  4. NoBrainer

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    Hmm, how about talking to her and/or her friends when you're at school? That way at least she knows who you are if you want to message her. This probably isn't very helpful, sorry- bit personally I would recommend trying to approach her somehow in person first rather than via social media.
     
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  5. Blop12

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    Sadly I'm not in any of her lessons and she's always with a massive group!
     
  6. Rikarwb

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    i read somewhere aproaching a girl in a group shows confidence. But if you think you're not prepared to talk to her alone ... don't try to talk her while in a group XD

    That's like wanting to eat an elephant whole. You need to eat it piece by piece :)
     
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  7. NoBrainer

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    Do you know any of the people in this 'massive group'?
     
  8. Blop12

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    Yes but I don't like any of them, they're all like party people whereas I go with the sporty people.
     
  9. You lose 100% of the things you never attempt.

    The only chance you have to win is by taking a chance. If you lose, you're no worse off than you were. If you win, you get the girl.

    Be brave, and say hey to her sometime. If you're in school, 99% of people at your age are awkward as hell, so just you having the guts to approach her will immediately set you above 90% of your peers, and even if she declines your interest, she's going to respect you a whole lot more for it.
     
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  10. Blop12

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    Thanks man
     

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