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Craving A Strip Club

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Disciplefive, Apr 24, 2017.

  1. Disciplefive

    Disciplefive Fapstronaut

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    What's everyone's thoughts on strip clubs during a reboot? The sexual energy is welling up inside of me and I feel like I'm gonna fucking explode. I feel like a raving sexual lunatic. I need to see some naked flesh!

    Are strip clubs a no-no? Is it the lesser of two evils, the other evil being a relapse after 30+ days?
     
  2. sparkywantsnoPMO

    sparkywantsnoPMO NoFap Moderator & Yeoman

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    A strip club is still artificial. Even if it wasn't, how is that going to help? You see them, you get stimulated, then you can't O, so now you're in pain from blue balls, right?

    You can stick this out!
     
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  3. He's right, a strip club wouldn't help. You'd be better off hiring a prostiture, or visiting craigslist.
     
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  4. Veronico

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    Lol why suggesting him to go find a prostitute..

    It's simple, if your sexual energy is about to explode, then it means that your sexual energy won over you and you lost. NoFap is about having self-control over sexual urges. Having sex with a hooker, constantly wanting to see someone naked and fantasize about naked girls, is pretty much the same as getting back to porn. You are a slave of sexual insticts. You need to become an alpha man and know how to control your libido.

    Good luck.
     
  5. You are preaching to the choir, someone who hasn't had any sexual encounter in over three months. Would I have sex right now if I could? Sure, why not?
     
  6. Disciplefive

    Disciplefive Fapstronaut

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    You're right chief. If I'm dying now, I would pass out in a strip club.
     
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  7. Disciplefive

    Disciplefive Fapstronaut

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    Man you just clobbered me with that one. I am a slave. Always been one. That's probably what drove me into porn. I'm all about self control. How the does one control their own ridiculous sexual instinct and libido?
     
  8. SnowWhite

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    All these choices are drugs for sex addicts.
     
  9. Strength And Light

    Strength And Light Fapstronaut

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    @SnowWhite is absolutely right. Porn addiction is dopamine addiction. Dopamine is not a chemical for pleasure, it's a chemical for anticipation. All you get at a strip club is sexual anticipation, so you're flooding your brain with dopamine, the exact drug you're trying to abstain from. Dopamine is also why when you watch porn, you keep clicking on more and more videos instead of allowing yourself to O. It's not the O you're addicted to, it's the anticipation.

    If you're 36 days into reboot and feeling super intense cravings, it's probably because you haven't been completely abstaining from sexual anticipation. If you've spent any time scrolling hot chicks on Instagram, FB, Tindr, Youtube, ogling females in public or at work, etc..., you have been giving yourself unnecessary dopamine, and your brain will crave more every single time.
     
  10. sparkywantsnoPMO

    sparkywantsnoPMO NoFap Moderator & Yeoman

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    Strength and Light, thank you. When I wrote my post, I was trying to convey this, but you were far more effective.
     
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  11. my take is do neither! sorry to be brash, usually I am not. but you must continue the 90 days.
     
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