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Couldn’t get hard to porn

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by howyoudoin, Apr 7, 2020.

  1. howyoudoin

    howyoudoin Fapstronaut

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    I am 19 y/o
    I watch porn on daily basis
    one day i was making out with my girlfriend but couldn't feel anything down their but when i started thinking of it to get hard it started getting hard
    Then suddenly one day i couldn't get hard to porn i was totally fucked up like why is this happening so i thought of not watching porn for few days. The next day i had my morning wood and got erect not that hard so i thought of trying porn again but couldn't get hard
    so i will like to ask will nofap will help me to overcome this problem as i have just started it for like 2 days, I get random hard on but not that firm.

    How NoFap works to the body?
    Will NoFap work for me?
     
  2. Supination

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    Sounds like a classic case of a Severe PIED. Do yourself a favor and quit porn FOREVER for good. No masturbation as well! Take a rest from having sex with your partner for at least 30 days in order to let your brain rewire and reset. PIED usually comes with Performance anxiety, So if i were you i'd consider talking to your partner. You might be surprised of how she'll be happy to help you and be patient with you. tell her the true reason why you cant function or you can tell her that you can't function due to some private issues. I bet it'll release some pressure. Nofap will help you only if you help yourself.
    This is totally reversible with high will power and patience!
     
    Last edited: Apr 10, 2020
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  3. Dizzy Lotus

    Dizzy Lotus Fapstronaut

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    It's interesting you assume howyoudoin has sex. [​IMG] But I agree with your message. [​IMG]
    By the way, in case howyoudoin doesn't know: PIED stands for porn-induced erectile disfunction.
     
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  4. howyoudoin

    howyoudoin Fapstronaut

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    ANything else i should take care of
    Will like to tell you that i do have my morning wood and i am 5 days with nofap
    You said no masturbation, does that mean forever or for atleast first 30 days
    And thank you for your advice
     
  5. Supination

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    Glad to hear that you're doing fine with your streak! may it continue for ever!
    Since you're suffering from a severe PIED it means your addiction is severe as well hence I suggest you no masturbating at all forever! Masturbation is an addiction by itself and it might even lead you to coming back to your old bad habit and losing your progress. The only healthy thing for you is intimacy with your partner. But before you do that, Give yourself and your brain a 30 days rest to refresh your reward center.
    After 30 days, Try having sex with her. You'll probably fail at the beginning. If you can't reach orgasm it's all good so don't stress out. It takes time and practice. Like i said Patience and being comfortable with your partner are both keys to succeed!
     
  6. howyoudoin

    howyoudoin Fapstronaut

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    Just last few questions
    I read some of the stories of fapstraunats in which they said making out, meditation helps them to recover faster will that work for me aswell
    And last 2 days i was completly mind fucked like if i am doing the right thing, is this going to fruitful
     
  7. Supination

    Supination Fapstronaut

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    Yea sure, Meditation is very helpful for nofappers. Try it, It might help you too!
    You're doing the right thing. Porn has caused you too much problems, so why coming back to it?
    Also there are so many proofs of people who overcame it. I'd suggest you to read some more posts about people who had the same case as yours. You're not alone!
    Also check out yourbrainonporn: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/porn-induced-sexual-dysfunctions/
    So much useful information and success stories!
    Good luck!
     
    Last edited: Apr 10, 2020
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  8. MrYang29

    MrYang29 Fapstronaut

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    NoFap will work so well for you my friend. Stay strong, stay human. Peace
     
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