Confusion over Girl

Idk she might just be trying to be nice about rejecting you

or maybe she wants to think about it longer. If you already asked her out directly, then you did your part

might as well just wait now, and see if she texts you next week when she is in town

if she doesn’t text you, then maybe try asking her out again in a few weeks. But I wouldn’t talk to her a lot right now, just go “no contact” and see if she messages you next week

 

How well do you know her?

 

Have you tried calling her?

 

She's got other stuff going on and doesn't owe you a detailed explanation for everything. Go hang out with her when she wants. If you see red flags, don't pursue it any more. If she seems cool, do.

But don't obsess and worry about what this or that means, or why she said a thing, or why she didn't react in the exact way you hoped in the exact time you wanted her to. You've heard of the Serenity Prayer, right? God or whatever cosmic entity of choice grant me the strength to change what I can, the serenity to accept what I can't, and the common sense to tell the difference?

Something like that, it's a paraphrase.

This lady's schedule and motivations and all that stuff are well outside the things you can change. All you need to think about is whether your schedule is open next week, and if you want to hang out. That's it.

Are you really 471 days clean? That's awesome dude.

 

There's no "just" in a generic way, I'd think you want to understand both women in general and this woman in particular to really get anywhere in the relationship. Even when people are able to get somewhere with PUA, generalized info like that they will eventually hit a wall because they don't know or understand the particular person they're with. Even if they're having a ton of sex and killing it in that sense (questionable how often that actually happens) they may not actually find satisfaction in that, in effect just be addicted to sex rather than PMO.

 

Is this all? You should consider yourself lucky. I had a girl who started approaching me, showed all of her interest towards me, made me compliments, gave me her number, gave me a kiss... and then no replies on the phone! What do you think is confusion like?

 

She may just like you but not be interested in dating you, or she may be unsure about it. Or perhaps she just changed her mind at some point.

Anyway, it is up to her to make the decision.

 

Yes, i just felt something more than usual, no big deal. Life is going on

 

I had quite a similar experience not so long time ago and I was very disappointed as well. Invested a lot of feelings into the idea, that I would date her.

 

She politely said no, she didn't want to say NO directly so she said MAYBE she would text you next week. What's the update, did she text you?
Don't be confused, just keep moving on to the next girl, there are so many girls/women out there.