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Confused, Don't know what happened

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Deleted Account, Nov 9, 2016.

  1. Nov 9, 2016 #1
    Deleted Account

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    Hey everyone. I'm very confused and need advice right now. I don't understand whats happening. For the past three years I've suffered horrible PIED. The last time I relapsed was last Thursday night. But ever since Friday night my PIED seems to be going away. Last night I had sex with a girl for the first time in a loooooong time. It didn't last long and to be honest I went soft after a few minutes (my dick must still be desensitized) but regardless the fact I made it to that point is mind blowing. I don't understand why this is suddenly happening. Here are some things I've changed in my life:
    -Tea and honey every morning
    -Gym every night
    -Deleted all social media, don't sit on my phone for hours anymore

    Regardless of these changes, I can't make sense why all of a sudden my penis is starting to work again. I literally haven't even made it to a week yet from relapsing. My longest streak was 22 days. I'm scared this is just a fluke, and I'll see no improvement or my PIED will just return again at the worst times.

    Has this happened to anyone? Does anybody have any advice for me. I just don't understand what's happening to my body.
     
    Deleted Account, Nov 9, 2016
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  2. Nov 14, 2016 #2
    HappyDaysAreHereAgain

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    It starts coming back pretty quickly. I was excited on day 4 to wake up with my first morning wood in ages. On the other hand, this is day 55, and I know I have more progress to make. Occasionally I am tempted to go back and see how well the old machine would perform with the improvements that I am experiencing. I have not done it.
    I do remember a friend who broke his shin and got tired of the cast on his leg, so he just took it off. It didnot heal well, it was crooked, and it never has quit hurting. He walks with a cane. I want to heal completely.
     
    HappyDaysAreHereAgain, Nov 14, 2016
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  3. Nov 15, 2016 #3
    ComeAgain?

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    Glad to see some positive thoughts in this thread. I love the idea of deleting all social media. That's what I did as well and saw big improvements.
     
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  4. Nov 17, 2016 #4
    BenBozonian

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    You have to give it more time.
    PIED is not black and white, there are degrees of severity (you already know that).
    Mine is kind of the same, I got it up and in and deflated within minutes while in her.
    That's when I knew I had a problem and got on NoFap.
    You must let your brain re-wire completely to "real girl sex" and this is much more than just the act of penetrating and keeping it up. It has to do with with the senses that aren't stimulated with PMO like touch and smell.
    I used to get aroused just smelling the back of my girl's neck.
    Anyway, I digress.
    Stay off PMO and eventually your brain will return to normal and you will be able to sustain long erections with your girl.
     
    BenBozonian, Nov 17, 2016
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