Change the sexual preference?

i am curious about this too. is there a way to shift your sexual preference? or get rid of it and put a healthier one in place?

 

I believe (I am not an expert) that once we stop being slaves to the orgasm , our natural mind will reveal itself .

 

I agree with @dnice2012 that after you reboot everything will be clear.Just be patient and you will have the answers to your questions.When you are addicted to P your brain is fucked up every day and you don't think clear because your brain is damaged.After you rebooted then your questions will be answered.And i do not mean 90 days.90 days is just the first checkpoint.It might be enough or it might not.For example i have passed the 100th day but i still am not rebooted 100% so the sooner you start absence -and i mean real absence once and for all- the sooner your questions will be answered so no time like the present

 

The easy way is to resist the temptation and keep holding on.The more you feed the urge the stronger it becomes and the harder you have to try to repel it so focus on something else and keep yourself occupied.The beginning is hard but it is worth every struggle you face

 

Whatever sexual preference you have after a reboot will be a healthy one regardless of what it is, it won't be based on sexual depravity, it will be more emotional and deep. Wait for your brain to heal, then you will see. I'm not there yet but I've had some changes and I know it will be even better in the long run.

 

Have you ever experienced the change of your sexual preference by yourself? Or is this just an theory?

 

I'd say yes. You have free-will. You can control your desires, you can deny your instincts. It's hard, sometimes very hard, but it can be done.

 

I would say that, if you didn't have the capability of mastering this, you wouldn't have the capability of even wanting to do so. The fact that you want so desperately to do so is a smoking gun--it shows that there is more to you than this "sexual preference", it shows that there is something in you that is not satisfied by your current sexual activities. If you are capable of obeying your sexual desires, you must also be capable of obeying the voice inside of you crying out against them.

My amateur advice would be that firstly deny your desires and then attempt to change and realign them. In the novel The Exorcist, one of the priests says that love is "an act of will." So if, after you have found the ability to not give into sexual cravings but still feel desires towards this preference you are talking about, I don't think it means that said preference will have to dictate what sorts of relationships you have. Who is to say that you won't meet a woman you love unconditionally, for example, whom you might have to struggle at times to be attracted to in the way you want to be, but who is totally worth the struggle...and who is also willing to be a partner with you in your own struggle against this preference?

In the world of porn, sex is made to order and easy, but it isn't even supposed to be that way in real life. If it was easy, people wouldn't congratulate couples on good and steady relationships--people are congratulated for doing what is difficult, not what is completely without effort.