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Challenge accepted - Help with blue balls

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by DadeCountyDude, Jul 8, 2020.

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  1. DadeCountyDude

    DadeCountyDude New Fapstronaut

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    Greetings, made a conscious decision to abstain from fapping as a result from a couple of recent fap binges I didn't find healthy. The issue for me is binging. Sometimes I can fap once and be fine but usually it leads to a binge which is concerning. Because of that I am looking for change. I stumbled across NoFap and now I'm here going through a reboot. So far so good, I am 25 days in and the urge to view porn hasn't been much of an issue. I have had sexual urges but for the most part have been able to curb those. The main challenge is blue balls and has always been. My habits were out of necessity to relieve this problem, which would then turn into a binge. I have been able to push through up to this point but the discomfort is gradually increasing as I go. I feel like this a result of a lot of getting aroused via fantasizing, another reason for the reboot. Any tips, suggestions or recommendations on how to alleviate blue balls. I've tried a lot of things but not much seems to work.
     
  2. Hi welcome to NoFap. If you're serious about recovering from addiction it's important to make the decision to stop fantasizing at some point. Fantasy is living in a dream world. There is no such thing and it doesn't get you anywhere. Once in a while you may have some thoughts of it, but do your best to stay watchful. You can't half ass this. You have to go all in. Men don't fantasize, only boys and children do.
     
  3. DadeCountyDude

    DadeCountyDude New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the feedback. I agree. Most of them are random, not willfully generating them. I am becoming more mindful when they do happen and hitting the off switch.
     
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