Cant see difference between real life and porn

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by helpme013, Jul 14, 2022.

  1. helpme013

    helpme013 New Fapstronaut

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    So basically everytime I see like a cute girl like not even a hot girl just a cute girl, the first thing comes to mind is like fucking her or doing anything sexual with her I’m porn addicted and I want to quit porn, als I get like a lot of boners when a cute girl talks to me I get a boner will all of this go away if I stop porn?
     
  2. Joe1023

    Joe1023 Fapstronaut

    In my experience, this will go away if you stop lusting. You are addicted to lust, plain and simple. If all you do is stop watching porn, no it will not stop. You have to stop lusting completely, in all areas. Join an SA group at www.sa.org.f2f for help. I joined several years ago and it is EASILY one of the best choices I ever made to better myself.
     
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  3. DevilMayFry

    DevilMayFry Fapstronaut

    That's not exactly true. For me, it was abstaining from PMO that helped. It was automatic, so I didn't have a choice in lusting. That might be the same for you too @helpme013. You've got to try for at least 30 days to find out.
     
  4. drunkenmaster

    drunkenmaster Fapstronaut

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    stop watching porn simple as build power over women
     
  5. Joe1023

    Joe1023 Fapstronaut

    Right, but you just said that you abstained from PMO, not just P. My point is that if someone who is truly an addict to porn/sex does nothing other than stop watching hardcore porn, in my opinion, that person will do nothing to recover from their addiction.
     
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  6. DevilMayFry

    DevilMayFry Fapstronaut

    Oh yeah sorry, brain fart.
     
  7. Sometimes when I pass by women, I get thoughts of their nudity or having sex. But then I remember that the women could be lesbians or transwomen. My sexual thoughts decrease because I don't like the thought of sexually objectifying a lesbian nor transwoman.
     
  8. Joe1023

    Joe1023 Fapstronaut

    All good, my friend.