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Can't orgasm during normal or oral sex

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Pmoss, May 5, 2023.

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  1. May 5, 2023 #1
    Pmoss

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    Like most here I have been pmo for years. I have had a partner for awhile but haven't been able to cum piv of bj. I can cum reading erotic stories or watching porn. I am on day two of no pmo. I am planning on no porn or masturbation. But I am going to continue sex with the goal of orgasms this way. Any one that have concurred this problem I would like to here your journey, how long it took. Thanks
     
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  2. May 6, 2023 #2
    Pmoss

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    Yesterday was tough but today is day three no pmo.
     
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  3. May 6, 2023 #3
    starsandsuns

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    Typical porn induced desensitization, often goes with porn-induced erectile dysfunction or delayed ejaculation. Stop using porn and masturbating for a few months to see how things resolve. You can learn the reason why it happens here: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/too...e/desensitization-a-numbed-pleasure-response/

    Look at all these success stories (search 'delayed' or PIDE or the DE acronym): https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-accounts/rebooting-accounts-page-1/

    Here are some specific ones about delayed ejaculation and recovering sensitivity.


    Here are a number of success stories:
    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...o-super-hard-and-successful-orgasm-during-bj/

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...-page-1/age-20-ed-de-150-days-successful-sex/

    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/sensitizing-the-penis-again.193346/page-3#post-1806026

    https://old.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2utvpr/day_130_and_still_making_progress/

    https://yourbrainrebalanced.com/for...aaaay-too-much-sensitivity.32202/#post-510642

    4 weeks:
    https://old.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/4c9zry/delayed_ejaculation_is_nofap_an_effective_cure/

    5 weeks:
    https://old.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/12v64o/does_nofap_really_cure_delayed_ejaculation/c7fedve/

    45 days
    https://old.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comm..._helped_anyone_regain_sensitivity_in/dxcnieq/

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...-22-regained-sensitivity-during-sex-140-days/

    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/back-again-on-the-nofap-journey.76217/

    https://old.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/242hfy/delayed_ejaculation_will_rnofap_cure_it/ch35wem/


    https://old.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/242hfy/delayed_ejaculation_will_rnofap_cure_it/ch35wem/
     
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  4. May 6, 2023 #4
    Tom Jackman

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    I am having the same issue with sex with my wife. But I get so hard and ejaculate without issue while masturbating in chat rooms.
     
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  5. May 7, 2023 #5
    Khufu

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    just looking at something sexually stimulating for abit without touhing meself well give me e.d for afew days. During one of my e.d experiences it caused her to become very upset, i talked to her, explained i M'd to porn a day ago or so, i told her i experince e.d due to that, i focused on no pmo or viewing it and it got better, everything is normal long as if i abstain from pmo.She wants me to be more passionate and the more im pmo free,i find the more passionate i become.p.s while conversing with her about the situation, it wasnt even wierd , she didnt start any issue with it or anything, she understood
     
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  6. May 7, 2023 #6
    Pmoss

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  7. May 7, 2023 #7
    Pmoss

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    Yup I can jerk off to porn or erotic stories and bee hard. I can be hard with her but just not cum inside. I still enjoy it but it best when but orgams. Thats why I going to stick with this. There are alot of stories with guys with the same problem giving up P and recovering the sensitivity to enjoy vaginal sex. No pmo, I am on day 4.
     
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  8. May 8, 2023 #8
    Pmoss

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    Going on day 5...4 was hard. Wanted to m so bad. I went to sleep instead. Keeping my desire to recover from DE.
     
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  9. May 8, 2023 #9
    Tom Jackman

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    Hang in there!
     
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  10. May 9, 2023 #10
    Pmoss

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    Five days done. Had my moments. I actually had my pants off and was gently touching myself but No porn which is the most important thing. I stopped and took a nap instead. Not a relapse. A better choice.
     
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  11. May 9, 2023 #11
    Tom Jackman

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    Good choice!
     
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  12. May 9, 2023 #12
    Pmoss

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    Omg I was looking of facebook..which I never do or have done. But I wanted to check out the marketplace. When all of a sudden I was getting all these porn or pornish feeds! I didn't even know such stuff was there! I quickly closed out of it. I have to confess I did log back in and none came up again. I almost searched for it, but decided what I really want is to get rid of my DE. Hopefully I will have the same results as the other people in the success stories say they have had. An internal orgasm that two peaple enjoy is far better then shooting to a tissue. Day 6 is continuing tomorrow will be one week. The first goal. No p,m or o. Although I definitely am craving an O!
     
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  13. May 9, 2023 #13
    Tom Jackman

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    You can do this!
     
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  14. May 10, 2023 #14
    Pmoss

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    Day 6 is done. It was not a easy day but got though it. Today is the one week mark.
     
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  15. May 10, 2023 #15
    Tom Jackman

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    You are doing this man!
     
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  16. May 10, 2023 #16
    Pmoss

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    One week in done! Tomorrow starts week 2. Looking forward to an internal orgasm oral or vaginal.
     
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  17. May 11, 2023 #17
    Pmoss

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    8th day. I keep looking at success stories to remind me for the good outcome of another day with out porn or masturbation. But man I could use a release, my balls feel full!
     
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  18. May 11, 2023 #18
    Tom Jackman

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    I bet it feel so good to be 8 days in. You can do this!
     
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  19. May 13, 2023 #19
    Pmoss

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    Starting day 11. I did google some nude pictures. But quickly stopped. No pmo for 10 days. I am feeling good about this. I know this is important for myself and others
     
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  20. May 13, 2023 #20
    Spiritual Immunity

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    Good to know bro, I really wanted to come to this site to hear about how you can’t orgasm from a blowjob. Thanks for your contribution.
     
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