Cant get hard when it comes to real things

You didn't say how old you are. But, younger than about 50 and having erectile dysfunction is called PIED

No matter your age, read this: https://nofap.com/porn-addiction/

Scroll down to the section called "Fallout" and it explains PIED.

 

First of all, congratulations on making progress towards overcoming your addiction to pornography. It takes a lot of courage and determination to make such a positive change in your life.

As for the issue of not being able to get or maintain an erection during sexual activity, it's important to remember that this can be a common issue for many men and is not necessarily a reflection of your progress or success in overcoming your addiction.

 

A combination of deathgrip and PIED.

Deathgrip is basically tugging your dick too hard. Leads to your dick not liking the vagina. Now, I've never had sex so I wouldn't know but this is the gist of it.

PIED is basically when you condition your dick to get hard to porn and not women. Stop watching porn and your dick will start liking women again.