Can the effect of these genres be reversed?

I guess going NoFap should reverse this, as reported by many NoFappers in the past, so please take your journey seriously. I wish you good luck!

 

I am a bit confused. If you are an average sized dude, why do you have inferiority issues?

 

I can answer this, because I also used to have a problem with thinking my size was too small. I'm slightly above average, but because porn commonly has men with 7+ inches, it creates this illusion in a young mans mind (or boy; I started around 8 or 9 yrs old) that if one doesn't have that size, then they could never satisfy a woman or if she is, then she's lying or trying to save your feelings or cheating on you or whatever mind games one plays with themselves. It's even worse in my case because when my ex-wife and I did have sex, she would always O (Both with the C and the V) and I still thought I wasn't enough. It just shows how much porn has a hold on the mind and which brings me to the OP.

It's simple but difficult what i'm going to tell you: Abstain. Abstain. Abstain. From what little you've told us, this is a recent thing and wasn't there before you started PMO. I suspect it will go away as you get further and further from it. However, there is a chance that this is what you are into and if thats the case, you can still find a loving relationship. It will just be harder to do so without being with a woman who doesn't respect you, but I wouldn't make that decision until you are in a clearer head-space.

 

Just stop watching porn for a few days, and you'll feel a lot better. The specific fetish you're watching is causing this inferiority complex. Take 30 minutes to go through this forum on size issues, you'll find dozens of guys who recovered from cuckoldry porn and who say that they have dicks that are actually below average.

 

Print out your post on paper. Physically print out your post so you have it tangible, in your hands.
Keep it where you can read it. Put it on a bulletin board or on your refrigerator. Reread it, high light it with yellow high lighter. Carry it with you through out your day.
GET THREE DAYS PMO FREE.
Your mind will be just a little clearer, anxiety will be slight less after day three.
These are small steps that you are capable of doing regardless of how low you feel.
Yes, the damage will reverse.

 

I don't have the same thing but can tell you this. We have no idea what we are truly into, but you will never know until you give up all porn and give your brain time to heal. You may not be into it at all. I thought I was just socially awkward, but when I am on a good streak I can talk to anyone and people seem to naturally gravitate to me. But when I am in a relapse cycle, it seems like it is the exact opposite. So stop the porn and give yourself some time to heal.

 

You're not thinking about this the right way. You are about to start a race and thinking about what if I don't put the right foot forward and fail. You can't be too afraid of the what if to never start. You are going to stress yourself out and possibly relapse about the what if. Odds are that anyone that can "weather the storm" and make it through will be an alpha male. And there may be failure along the way, not something to be afraid of. If you fail just get back on the horse. You will never truly fail if you keep trying to push forward and don't quit. Let me ask you this though, if you don't do anything different and just live the life you are living, with porn, will life change some day for you? If you do nothing, are you really going to be happy. You're not happy now and if you do nothing you will not be happy later either. So reach down deep within yourself and give yourself a chance to see what is on the other side of the storm. Right now you can't see what is on the other side because you are too worried about your current situation. But maybe it is just that, a situation. Situations can change, but you have to be the one to make it change. Give yourself a chance to make it through the storm and see the you that comes out the other side of it. It may be a long hard road but just don't quit, keep moving.

 

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