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can porn affect our personality?

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Raskolnikov..., Sep 22, 2023.

  1. Raskolnikov...

    Raskolnikov... Fapstronaut

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    I don't know if you can relate to this but I put girls on a pedestal in a weird way, like I treat them like they're way better than me and I'm lucky if I get a reply from them -not all girls I mean the girls I like so much and get obsessed with-
    I used to watch a LOT of femdom videos and things like that in which the woman is everything and the man is just her sl*ve and that sh!t.
    sometimes I even fap when she ignores me or treats me like shit, my brain interprets that as she's dominating me and that makes me h0rny.
    I used to search for love and intimacy and now I'm just a guy who thinks that he doesn't deserve the bare minimum or the least bit of attention from a girl.
    I'm sorry for the negativity but I just need help i don't know what to do. and i hate what I'm doing.. I'm being a loser and i hate it
     
  2. Musti.99

    Musti.99 New Fapstronaut

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    Bro it's good that you woke up and realized before it was too late. This is all because of pornography. You must leave these things and thoughts and be a real man. If you think that a girl is better than you, you will not get a girl in your entire life. Girls love Girls love men with a strong personality. (Written by Google Translate. I don’t know how to write English, lol )
     
  3. HealingBodyandMind

    HealingBodyandMind Fapstronaut

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    Yes, I think porn can temporarily affect personality.. not permanently though as long as you can break free from the shackles
     
  4. Joe1023

    Joe1023 Fapstronaut

    Most of my posts on this forum usually start with how whatever I'm posting is my opinion. This post will be one of the rare exceptions. The answer is YES. Porn can absolutely change a person's personality, PERIOD. Anyone who argues that point is in denial or they're selling something, probably porn. It absolutely changed my personality and it took me some time, and a LOT or hard work to change it back. So yes, porn can change a person's personality. I am irrefutable living proof that it can.
     
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  5. TheLoneWolf88

    TheLoneWolf88 Fapstronaut

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    To answer your question, absolutely yes. About a year or two ago, I began to develop incel thoughts. Intense self loathing due to being a mid 30s virgin, and felt that women should ask me out as I never wanted to attempt that. I would have random crying moments, and especially after a few fap sessions. And I'm sure I put out a pretty foul odor during these times, even with deodorant. Over the years, my sister's kids called me the scary uncle as I would become irritated with no warning
     
  6. MrBlue201

    MrBlue201 Fapstronaut
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    I think porn is a trap a lot of ppl can fall into when they are loney, this includes me. Nowadays a lot of people are lonely due to the availability of endless entertainment in our palms, and unfortunate world events. In reality they are all just trying to get you to fall into it. I think if you can reduce/eliminate your interest in porn you will notice that you feel better.
     
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  7. TheLoneWolf88

    TheLoneWolf88 Fapstronaut

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    I'm almost two months in, completely shattered my untouchable record, and I've plateau'ed. I have absolutely no interest in fapping, and I feel quite a bit better
     
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  8. MrBlue201

    MrBlue201 Fapstronaut
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    Congratulations! Dont waste as much time as I did. I'm 33, but still have plenty to do in this life too :)
     
  9. MrBlue201

    MrBlue201 Fapstronaut
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    Woops we're about the same age, lol, cheers anyway
     
  10. TheLoneWolf88

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    I've wasted 17 years to this...almost two decades! I'll be 35 in a month, and there may be a possibility that I may get birthday sex. If I keep this streak up, I'll hit day 90 by New Years Eve
     
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  11. MrBlue201

    MrBlue201 Fapstronaut
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    Sex isnt the prize though, just remember that your self worth and having yourself back is the real prize.
     
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  12. TheLoneWolf88

    TheLoneWolf88 Fapstronaut

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    It's not about it being a prize, but it's something I've yearned for for years now, but could never achieve it
     

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