Can anyone relate?

When my husband quit it took about 4-6 months for pied to go away and then he had PE for about a month. You become more sensitive when you aren’t beating it every day. PE went away and now for the first time in 30 years I’d say he’s normal. He doesn’t take forever, no PE, no pied. If he slips pied comes back almost immediately.

 

Absolutely. My husband was 50 when he started getting help to recover. He had DE our entire marriage ( including first time on our honeymoon). At 45 he had pied for 5 years. Sex is now the best it’s ever been. Our marriage is the best it’s ever been.

 

I'm not married or have kids, but I am struggling in the intimacy department with my girlfriend.. We've been together for a while now. Everything besides sex is wonderful but when it comes to it it's irritating for me. I have stamina and can go for a while some times I am almost ready to climax but she stops and we take it slow again which has helped if I have any PE problems. The only downfall is that I feel de sensitize like my skin isn't reacting at all when I am inside. When I grip with my own hand it feels better and it just sucks Pat.

I want to know what she's feeling, but this de sensitization is just grueling. Are you dealing with this also or is it just the PE?

 

Your situation seems quite common and i think it can be cured from quitting porn all together and focusing on things less sexual. Working out, eating healthier and revitalizing foods and also not putting so much stress over performance, it is said that it takes 90 days for the mind to complete its reboot from PMO. I personally went through a period early on when I was consuming a lot on porn during the pandemic and it made it really hard to ejaculated during real sex, so I could go on for a long time but with no real urge , then when i began NoFap no pmo, at the beginning , I ejaculated much sooner in bed. Now everything seems a lot more balanced. I feel that going a while on porn just throws your systems out of wack and it just needs a time of rest and relaxation to restore itself. sometimes when we focus on it too much we can make it into a problem, when in truth its a phase that will naturally past in time.

hope that helps

 

This is me right now and it sucks, really is a drainer when intimate. Over the past weekend I was intimate with my girlfriend and I barely felt like I was in there.

No problem man. When I was on about two week streaks they really helped but I was single at the time, but I could really feel the PE going away. I believe it’s only the real way to cure, but subliminal frequencies have helped a whole lot.