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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by vickyksr, Apr 23, 2020.

  1. vickyksr

    vickyksr Fapstronaut

    Hi guys
    I'm a 30yo virgin guy who had been addicted to porn, masturbation and orgasm. I dealt with it a couple of years ago by focusing on physical exercise especially running. However, some time ago doctors advised me against running and other exercises due to a medical condition. Not being able to run caused a huge mental trauma to me and caused my problems to slowly creep back up. I developed unhealthy intense attraction towards a girl who wisely rejected me. I have changed my location and stopped all contact with her so I don't see her any more but still I find myself absorbed in her thoughts most of the time and carry out MO. Also, in general my interaction with women has been awkward as I find myself sometimes imagining them as in porn movies. I feel not engaging in PMO will make things better and help me adjust to a more normal sedentary lifestyle. I also feel slowly I'll get over the girl and start appreciating my life more.
     
  2. palindromo

    palindromo Fapstronaut

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    Please, start studying carefully what's happening in your mind > https://oceanrecoverycentre.com/2016/07/the-ultimate-guide-to-overcoming-internet-porn-addiction/

    First time without porn will be stressful , but if you resist , in some months you will feel reborn.
    So if you have any temptation , is okay to masturbate if you can't handle the stress , but don't porn anymore.
    No more instagram pictures of models. No more erotic imagines , erotic stories or asmr.
    If you experience ''flatline'' and low libido , resist.
    >https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/por...l-size-and-or-libido-are-decreasing-flatline/

    The brain will try to win you and to get some triggers for the seek of dopamine. Resist

    - - -
    Sadly it's common, but now that you are aware of the problem you can start the reboot.

    I recommend you to master mindfulness.
    When you will be able to meditate easily like breathing , you will have the weapons to fight the problem.

    First you have to understand that your thought about her are not totally real.
    That you perceive her like your perfect angelic woman , not like how she is in real.
     
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  3. Hey, welcome to the NoFap community
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    It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!
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    Here is just some advice:
    First and foremost please take a careful look at each section in the forum, there may be something(s) you will find to be of big help to you.

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    The forum has got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see.
    People will find your profile and give you support.

    There’s a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive conversations. It would be great to have you join in and become part of the team!
    We support others in the threads, profile posts, and journals/reboot logs.
    Once you receive some support, please be sure and be grateful to the member for the help/support you received and consider giving some in return to anyone you wish.

    Thirdly, you should highly consider creating a public journal/reboot log (in the appropriate sectionfor you) to write about your days in depth for us members to follow along on your journey and offer support to you on.

    Please start your journal in the correct section and with that, also try your best to post in the correct sections as it is mandatory and would be helpful to the mods who organize the forum. : )

    Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
     
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  4. | Nico |

    | Nico | Distinguished Fapstronaut
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    Welcome to nofap buddy :) if we can assist you with anything let us know, best of luck on your journey
     
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  5. Hello there... :)
    Welcome to the community!
     
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  6. vickyksr

    vickyksr Fapstronaut

    Hi peeps
    Can someone help me how to block soft porn and subtle erotic images in ads in android
     

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