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It is Finished · Oct 29, 2021

Spirituss said: ↑

@matt2k12

Think about it for a second. Where does this need to appear strong to women come from?
From frustration, anger, jealousy, neediness.

A man who is healthy, happy and at peace with himself and others does not feel the need to become perfect to fill an inner void.
It does not mean not to try to improve every day and exceed its limits, to have goals.

It means that he does it for himself, because it is good for him and not to reach a perfect future that in fact does not exist.

The red pill mentality is not to be dismissed. There is plenty of advice out there to help guys who are struggling to take control of their lives.
But this mentality is fueled by ego, anger and frustration.
In short, everything that is not healthy (and attractive to women).

Men end up believing that kindness is a problem. Think about it for a second. Does it really make sense? Is it healthy for male-female relationships?

I could go on and on about this topic for hours. But usually the guys who follow red pill have such a strong ego that it's impossible to argue with them. Because they are not able to question their beliefs. Good for red pill, since their whole business is based on ego and fixed ideas.

So I consider anything I say here useless and will not be heard. I prefer to stop here^^

I have slept with over 30 women in my life and almost all of them have told me that they like my honesty and kindness. They like the fact that I don't pretend to be someone I'm not.
I have insecurities, and I don't try to be perfect and be more masculine and strong and flawless. And that's exactly what they like. Ironic, isn't it?
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I have a hard time believing that someone with a question mark for a gender has slept with over 30 women.

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Spirituss said: ↑

This is typically the problem. Finding out the truth in relationships doesn't make sense.
Simply because it is a process that never ends. You never finish learning.

That's what I don't like about red pill. Not only do they not practice talking to women (because they've decided that talking to women makes them weak, and that they are so important in this world that women have to come to them). But on top of that, they think they know everything about relationships. And as soon as you point out a contradiction, they will say that you are weak because you are nice, and that being nice is like being needy. Etc.

Honestly, I've approached more women than any guy. I've been questioning myself for 4 years and I'm still questioning myself.
That's what keeps me going. Every day I get closer to my truth. I don't pretend to say that I will find the truth. Simply because I understood that there is no magic pill applicable to everyone. Everyone has to find their own solutions.
I know that I will never reach the pure truth, even after 10 years of intensive practice. And I'm okay with that, because I like the process.

However, what I do know is that believing a guy with big muscles and a beard on the internet who tells you "stop being nice, be an alpha" is just ridiculous. And makes me laugh at the same time.
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10 yrs of practice?

Aren't you 24 yrs old?

It is Finished · Oct 29, 2021

I'm Strength said: ↑

10 yrs of practice?

Aren't you 24 yrs old?
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He is one of those guys who started watching RSD Tyler and those other clowns.. and thinks the best thing to do is approach as many women as possible. He hasn’t got much of a clue if you ask me.

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