Better life better sex?

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Tristian, Jul 20, 2015.

  1. Tristian

    Tristian New Fapstronaut

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    Hi I recently discovered I have PE And ED because of my over use of porn which started when I was 11. I would like to know if anyone else experienced this and if they benefited from NoFap sexually?
     
  2. Limeaid

    Limeaid Guest

    This whole forum is full of people who have had success reversing DE, ED, by abstaining from PMO! My husband reversed his ED.
     
  3. DanVT

    DanVT Fapstronaut

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    It is a rollerocaster. You could be fine for weeks, then get hit by ED. The trick is to only have O with sex, not with M or E. (In my head I am singing "And Bingo was his name-o")

    I have been PMO free for almost 2 months, had ED but not PE last night. Usually it is the other way around... Plenty of fun to be had without an erection though.
     
  4. Hero One

    Hero One Fapstronaut

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    Hi there! This is a very common issue with those addicted to PMO.

    When you train your brain and body to only orgasm when masturbating in a certain way, while watching certain images, in a certain environment in isolation, it's going to severely change the natural way your body responds in a sexual situation.

    Here's an excellent quote from a Dr Fisch, from Cornell University directly on this topic:

    "When a man chronically watches porn and gets off on it, or watches porn with his hands on himself so he can masturbate at the same time (which is what usually happens), the sensory stimulation he gets from the virtual world makes it much more difficult for him to get aroused, stay aroused, and be happily aroused by the real, live woman in his life. … In other words, his frequent, porn-fueled masturbation leads to sexual dysfunction with a partner. If he can only have an orgasm when watching porn, and if he becomes accustomed to having orgasms only in a certain way or while watching a certain thing, he’s in trouble. … Porn isn’t just risky business; it’s a killer for your sex life.

    As mentioned, this forum is full of members who have experienced PE and ED, and more importantly, overcome these issues by overcoming their addiction to pornography and 'reset' their brains to a more natural state.

    I hope you find the strength and motivation to do the same. Good luck, and I wish you well!