Being a virgin is a good thing...

I often hear people on this website (and I suppose just about anywhere) talk about virginity as if its the plague. Well I just wanted to sort of (in a nice way) tell these people they are wrong. Being a virgin means that your 100% STD free, that you don't got any baby mommas hanging around, and best of all it means that you haven't been conditioned to "that special someone" yet, so when you do get around to it it'll be better because you'll be "trained" the way that you should in order to please that person.

I lost my virginity about a year ago, and well I would just like to describe the event for you guys (and girls) that might wonder where I'm coming from with this, at risk of putting anyone into relapse I suggest you ignore the next paragraph if you aren't confident you can handle it, it won't be erotica but it will be an accurate portrayal of what went down.

Ok I had been a virgin up until the age of about 20 or 21 (forgot exactly), and well the only real experience I had with sex was limited to pornography. As one might imagine my mind was fairly warped and I wasn't thinking clearly. So, that being said, I might a handsome fellow by the name of Jake. Now it was obvious this guy was gay (stereotypical I know) and wasn't the least bit shy about it either. Long story short we eventually became roommates, and (as expected) we ended up having sex. I could not achieve erection at the time, so I figured I would have to be the catcher, which I was happy about being anyways. Well this doesn't sound too bad so far, however you have to understand that we shared the room with 2 other people, so we had to do it in the bathroom (and no, not a fancy one either) and instead of using actual lubricant we just used shampoo (it worked ok) and well we didn't even get to finish because our roommates caught us in the act before um we could "finish".

In hindsight it was probably one of the worst decisions I had ever done, the guy was a man whore, I could've gotten STD (thankfully I didn't ) and instead of it involving any sort of romance or connection is was basically just screwing, hell I don't even want to be with guys (well maybe really feminine fellas might be ok) anymore, but my warped brain didn't know any better.

Just don't worry about it guys, save it for someone that actually wants it, not just some prostitute or random hookup.