Attractive Traits Of A Woman

Sense of humor, compassionate, self-confident,independent,intellectual, down to earth,spiritual, and physically active. The rest is icing on the cake for me this all based on preference but after NoFap I see these things are more important than her being sexy or hot lol

 

I'm not lying to you. I only care about the way their hair looks. Slim waist. And thicc. Fuck their personality lol they are just controllers that men play with all the time... in truth noone gives a fuck about your personality dude. Only the girls

 

Normal girl with curly hair with Red Stick lip.

 

I would describe my type of woman as nerdy or intellectual. Physically speaking I like dark hair and an hourglass figure.

 

My must haves:
-Healthy
-Genuine (100% herself, 100% of the time)
-Attractive (to me)

Bonus points:
-Funny, Smart, Outgoing, Kind, Bubbly, Optimistic, Creative.

Deal breakers:
-Snob, Big Ego, Rude, Dishonest, Unreliable, Manipulative.

 

deprimente.
[QUOTE = "BlackAndGreyIzMyName, post: 1371928, member: 205452"] No te estoy mintiendo. Solo me importa la forma en que se ve su cabello. Cintura delgada. Y thicc. A la mierda su personalidad, jajaja, son solo controladores con los que los hombres juegan todo el tiempo ... en verdad a nadie le importa una mierda su tipo de personalidad. Solo las chicas [/ QUOTE]

 

Confidence
Comfortable in their sexuality
Sense of humor
Intelligence
A big ole booty

 

Compassionate
Easy going
Communicative
Not glued to social media
Independent
Family oriented
Fit/active
Pretty eyes and curls are a plus

 

I didn't think to mention deal breakers in my first post.
Heavy social media user
Entitled
Drama queen
Hates kids
Smoking. This one is by far the worst IMO.

 

Deal breakers manipulative, materialistic, needy and obessed with politics

 

The bumps - can't lie. Also the face.

 

I hesitate to respond directly to this because people can use it to judge themselves, like oh I don't have this or that, or enough of certain things or other women have more or better.

I think it's about the combination of traits, sometimes people may not have certain things but what they do have works really well together.

Psychological traits go a long way, personally I can be swayed even if they are not what people typically consider physically attractive. Age and body type may be less important for example.

So specific examples of it working well, maybe someone is older than I am, but they are just kind and affectionate in a platonic way without crossing a line, which is classy. Generally positive and open to who I am. The same goes for people who might be overweight. As long as it isn't extreme and unhealthy their personality can really make a difference. I'd rather be with someone who struggles a little with a bit of extra than someone with an eating disorder that is either unwilling to acknowledge it as a disease or not getting help and trying to recover.

I know I'm not answering your question directly but I don't think it's like a checklist of having a lot of the traits, I think the beauty of any REAL LIFE relationship is whoever the person is with gets them and just accepts them for all the quirks and uniqueness they have.

 

Dude really? and you wonder why you are single?

 

Looks are what initially attract you to a person, but should not be the main decision in having a relationship. Looks fade, people get fat, they lose their hair, they get wrinkles, gray hair. I think many people make this mistake. If you ever watch that show married at first site where the pick the people for you, you willl see what I mean. The couples that succeed? Many found the other one very unattractive, or just average early on. Looks are not a way to build a relationship. That is why so many people are unsuccessful in choosing their own partners. My dating advice is that if you go on a date with someone you met online, and you all are able to speak for an hour or more and enjoy yourselves and you don’t find the person repulsive give it a second date, you would be surprised. If you ask people married for 50 years what they are attracted to in their partner it is not going to be looks.

 

Mature, secure, independent, honest (no games), open (communicative and expressive), the ability to have important conversations (rather than resorting to passive silence or hostile violence), humor, reliable, puts effort into the relationship, and generally a partner in crime that's willing to grow and explore with me.

Looks are like the instrumental of a song. It can hook you to see what else is there. Personality is like the lyrics that allows the song to have substance and makes you want to stay.

I've been fortunate enough to have known many beautiful women. Some of them I dated and some were just friends or acquaintances. So I'm not easily swayed by looks and I know that it's only a small part of what makes a person who they are.

 

Yes. A lot of people like to go for looks. They simply have to have that person. They end up forgiving all the faults of that person that they shouldn't be forgiving. They start acting in a way that they think that other person will like them for. Hiding, manipulating, deceiving, and watering down their personality all to have that person with the looks. Then after some time passes, they both see that the other isn't who they thought they were nor what they both wanted.

Looks can be a factor, but the other more important things can amplify attraction much more. Especially for the long run.

 

Intelligent, physically active, an interesting conversation partner, non smoker, not a bitch

 

That's why most people know that looks are more like an invitation card. It like "That's a pretty person I want to get to know "
Then it all depends on personality. So yea for the long run there are other more important things.

 

There are a lot of things that gives beauty to a woman, its hard to explain.

But I can say that if she is toxic, dishonest, manipulative and negative ( feels as if they suck your energy), I'll distance myself from her, even if she has other admirable qualities