At the end of the road for me

I'm sorry you're going through this. I think a lot of us feel this way much of the time, especially with kids the guilt is so heavy. You definitely need to know when you're at your point of no return. I hope you and your family can find peace. *hugs*

 

I left my ex addict so I understand where you are. I did feel some guilt but for once I put my own feelings ahead of his. That’s the biggest piece of advice I give SOs put yourself first because god knows the addict is and he’s not feeling guilty. If he puts him first and you put him first then who the heck is looking out for hours? As women we are schooled to put ourselves last and that’s what I believe leads to guilt. Take it from someone who has been in your shoes. There are some amazing men out there just waiting to meet you. You don’t have to deal with this. You will find a man who is healthy and who will give you the love you deserve.

 

I understand very well what you're going through. I am in the same situation. I embrace you and be strong. Keep in mind that when you decide to stop, you have to do it, otherwise he will always do that because he knows you are not able to talk seriously. Perhaps when you will not be near him he will realize what he has lost. Many kisses.